THE POSITIVE SIDE:
Sometimes you kinda eventually develop a soft corner for your therapist (especially if they belong to the opposite gender) due to the following pivotal reasons:
1. They are perhaps the only person you have who "listens" to you and helps you de-tanglenhour thoughts
2. Their tone is pacifying and welcoming.
3. Sometimes when you are venting out, you logical side of the brain takes the back seat and your emotions take over. During such conditions, you end up trusting someone if they are listening to you with an active interest.
BUT BUT BUT !
THE APPARENT DARK SIDE:
1. They do all the sweet talk for money. While it may seem like a hard pill to swollow, its just like any other medical profession like cardiologist or radiologist, who wouldnt even look at you if you dont have money.
2. They will obviously judge you and talk about you to their close colleagues or intimate friends.
3. They would want you to BE SAD so that they can get paid. Infact my therapist once clearly said that we only take 20% accountability for everything when I was thanking her (indirectly hinting that if something goes wrong its on me and if something goes right its also on me)
Thanks to my therapist I dont even trust my shadow anymore.
