Life Advice for Big 4
Men who are 25 or older, please give a piece of advice in the comments section to the men who are 18-25.
DragonHunter
Stealth
4 months ago
Don’t hookup where you vlookup
1. It’s not love it’s just infatuation.
2. Needs > investments > wants
3. Health both mental and physical needs effort. Spend 30 mins a day at least on both. Compounding effect is unreal.
4. Marriage is not a goal. It’s a milestone. Much more hard work before and after.
5. Travel as much as possible.
6. Make friends from different cultures, social strata and regions.
Stay away from social media, it will fck ur expectations about life.
Focus on your health, drink plenty of water.
Focus on skillset.
Learn to deal with Asslickers/backstabbers in your office, trust me you will find plenty.
If you find someone u want to spend the rest of your life with, dont let the person go !
💯 couldn't agree more on the first part.Many times Reality is different from what is being portrayed in sm.Should learn to differentiate these two.
Few things
- indulge in experiences, savings can happen later
- make memories, with friendships
- be stupid (live, laugh and love in life in abundance)
- say yes to everything responsibly, serendipity would compound in your later years
- spend time with parents and siblings, schedule it, when we grow older we would tend to spend lesser time
- travel, travel and travel
- have difficult conversations with people, it’ll expand your perspective on life
- find your values, it’s would only steady your faith in later years
- spoil yourself a little bit (self love)
- heal your trauma(we all have it), this is the single most important part of life
- Try doing things alone, movies, walk in the park etc
- Try journaling, helps you clear your mind
- develop empathy for others
- play sports, helps in character
Well it might be philosophical 🧐 but yeah, I look back on these and wish I had done it. Doing most of these now a decade later than 25 🍻
Do masters from US ; work for 10-15 years and accumulate 1-2$ million and then decide to come back to India
Hilla lo sone se pehle you won't feel the need to love. And remember be terrified of happiness because only a genius can be scared of happiness. Nothing is permanent even your loved one can some day be nomore or some stranger might say the required stuff to motivate them to leave you so be terrified of happiness.
Don't do hardwork only to get girl or beautiful wife. It is pure luck to get good life partner. So, don't dream around it whole time. If you could not get good life partner, money can not give you much happiness.
1.Take a term insurance at the earliest. If you are not aware of what it is spend 30mins today.
2.Don't trust anyone. No lead or manager will support just for you. Have a plan B.
3.Plan for atleast next 15 years. Atleast think how you want and how can you achieve.
4.spend time with your parents and your love. Don't leave anyone among these for the other. Life is meaningless if you don't have the people you love in your life.
5. If you are trying too hard for some achievement but not able to have some hard stop and rethink. Sometimes we try for something which is impossible for us. Leave them and try to get the best you deserve.
6. Spend money when you have. Later you will not have time to spend. Or you are not in a situation to spend.
7. Time is money. Never get underpaid. Be in a place where you belong to and get paid for what you work.
8. Money can do lot many things. Respect it and have more of it. As much as you can and as early as you can. Dont run after it. But make means that it should come to you. After all it is leading the world.
Kamlesh
Stealth
4 months ago
Nut up and shut up
lol. There is nothing called advice in life. Just enjoy ur days. The magic number age between 30-34 will hit you and you will start learning urself. Then second hit at age 42-44.
If you overcome these two you are the real winner in life.
😁😎😎
Work hard but also try to embrace failure as not everytime there will be success.Failures will also come but should not be hard upon ourselves for that.Learn to handle failures and take lessons, move forward.Sometimes we have to embrace/tolerate whatever coming on our way even if it's failure.
Rafa29
Stealth
4 months ago
Stabilise your career. I mean start as soon as possible. Don’t rush into relationships. You can do once you have a control on your career. For example these are the general time lines for most pursued career paths
MS :
GRE preparation + MS + getting job and h1b - will take around 3 to 5 years
MBA
Cat preparation + MBA - will take around 4 years
Govt jobs
Be cautious while preparing for govt exams. Do a prep of at most 2 years without having job in hand. If you are unable to crack anything within in 2 years join a job and prepare for the exams simultaneously.
20 to 25 is a golden age. Make sure you work hard during these years
OverjoyedLap
Stealth
4 months ago
Travel solo or with friends. Be it a small trip, lots to learn. Stay in hostels, use public transportation. Meet new people, try to talk to everyone.
And main thing is Skill up. Whatever you do, irrespective of your course, skill up and get a good job or start something of yourself and aim for monetisation.
Never stop studying.
Go to gym. No need to be hrithik, but be consistent.
Start investing, be it 100 or 500rs at the start. There are. 1000s of YouTube videos to teach you how to and where to invest.
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