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Wanted him to oplogize

My Ex use to work in microsoft ,he was filthy rich but treated me like shit i stayed beacause i was loenely as parents were decicing to get me martied to an older man ..eventually i broke up with my ex or i can say he broke up with me because i didnt have money to give him.. to start his bussiness he doesnt find me "SUPPORTING" ....I met a guy in my office he was in different department is earning decent amout of money but we are from different religion ..although i am the happiest person with him i some times get flashback how i was treated miseberly .i know i should move on its beean 1.7 yrs already ..but i want him apologize and my heart wants him to realize tht he was wrong...or else i want take revenge ....plz suggest wt shall i do

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Anise Carmden

Stealth

2 months ago

Expecting/waiting for people to realise their mistakes and apologise is a pointless endeavour. Those who realise will do so on their own, not because you wanted them to or told them to. And it's not necessary that they will ever realise their mistakes either. Better to try and move on in life. Flashbacks are normal, as long as they aren't interfering with your relationship or life right now. Can't remove memories, can only learn to live with them until you eventually forget/stop caring.
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Kendall Carmden

Stealth

2 months ago

Exactly 💯
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Matilda Hyrum

Oracle

2 months ago

Move on. Life is too short to hold on to such things. Forgetting that he even existed is the best thing you could do. Whenever I feel this way, I make it a habit to realise I can spend this time to do better things in life.
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Jordon Lee

Deloitte

2 months ago

buddy the best breakup advice I got was: focus on YOU and not them. As you give yourself more love, you will not need anything from someone else. And also negative attention towards him is still attention. Where you focus your energy matters
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Kendall Vernon

Credit Suisse Group

2 months ago

Almost everyone feels the same after breakup or heartbreak, you aren't gonna get any of that, better to forgive him for your good and move on. I was also in the same boat a few years ago.
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