Investing, exercising, not starting up, not taking leap of faith and resigning from shitty job, arghh so many things

Senior software engineer

Consultant

Investing 
 And please shadi mat karna you might regret doing it 
 It’s a stupid fomo 
 Kamao udao sojao

please explain more about the shaadi part

Content Strategist

Software Developer

Tonight: Sleeping (3.20 right now, my head refuses to turn off) 
  
 This week: Ghosting a new friend (She's very fun, and I want things to work out) 
  
 This month: Miss my health checkup (Pretty sure I have some Vitamin deficiency. This is my first health check up since forever, and I have no idea whether my body is in good health or not) 
  
 This year: Not studying for FRM 2. (This is my only chance in the near future. Next year, I am focussing on switching jobs and preparing for higher education applications) 
  
 Few years: Not having an epic romance (Dealing with personal issues has led me to prioritize studies/work/whatever over romance. The relationships I've been in fizzled out because of lack of effort/vulnerability on my part) 
  
 Life: Taking my loved ones for granted.

Internal Audit

Not able to find my kind of girl. But I’m clueless right now.

What's something you might regret not doing in a time frame of a week/month/year/few-years

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People over 35 what is one thing you regret from your younger years?

Product Manager

My overall education started a bit late than normal people due to my fathers transfers and school admission rules. Consequently when I applied for JEE Advanced back in 2017 i was 19.5 years old.  I got it but wasnt satisfied so dropped a year and got a better rank. I was 20.5 years old when I finally joined IIT. 
Somewhere subconciously throughout my college life i felt that I did achieve what I wanted to but really late. I know theres nothing I could do about it but this was something still killing me inside. Most of my batchmates where 18 year olds and even the ones who dropped where at most 19. 

I always wanted to pursue my masters and phd but somewhere at the back of my mind I feel I would have to go theough the same feelings again. It just kills me so much inside. 

Currently I have completed 2 years as a software engineer and I am 26 years old. 
On one part my mind tells me that I am made for much more than just an IT job and should go to academia. On the other hand it feels like I am too old for it. 

I dont know what to do. I am not able to rationalize my thoughts. I am not able to understand how can I bring myself to overcome my fears and achieve what i really want in life.

A subconcious insecurity

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All the things that one has done so far at times you feel you could have taken different path. 
Could have studies different subject (AI/ML/Tech?) 
Could have started something of your own after passing out from college
Could have work harder on this which can give disproportionate returns( both personal and professional) 
Getting married early and investing as early as possible. 
I try to be grateful for things which I already have (and there are so many) but then there are moments where you feel you could have done better much better actually

How do you deal with regrets

What is your biggest regret?

Software Engineer

/s

[ also hoping to have some responses from people in their 30s & 40s for insights ]

pls don’t say boards dene ki jagah crypto kharidna tha 2014 me🫠

What’s your biggest regret in life?

Business analyst

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for me. i spent college studying for grades and 20s making money in a job I don't like, but never got to make the memories I should've with all my friends. I regret doing all of that

what is your worst mistake professionally?

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Your biggest personal regret

What is the best advice you were given that you did not follow and now regret not obeying?

It can be anything related to not doing something you always wanted to but never did, a mistake you realize you shouldn’t have made, or feelings of not being successful enough. Feel free to share your thoughts.

Do you have any regrets?

I feel my life is extremely difficult after demise of my beloved father at the age he should have  not left us this early he was 51 and now without him my life is just extremely difficult in all aspects  , people around me , relatives , career aspect marriage aspect future everything just scares me and  i feel i cannot reach out to anyone for my help not even my mother with my problems I feel if i reach out to anyone they just shut it like dont overthink , please stop with your negativity I just dont know how to get on with life He was like shield to us Now i dont know even me , my mom , my sibling has changed like anything Nothing feels good anymore

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