Women of GV, what are the sexist rituals in your wedding that you don't want to do / didn't do?

My female friend got married to tree first as guy was maanglik😂

I read that as sexiest ritual : |

Rituals are fine - people overhyped them too much. Its more about the other aspects of marriage that are problematic-

• assumption to give up job and change cities to where the guy lives without any discussion
• not being allowed to wear certain clothes and colours as decided by in laws
• “gifts” of course- cause you are getting married and not gonna arrive in this house empty handed - “jewellery and car all parents give to girls”

Mind you these are all points that have been discussed by boys/their families who are from Tier 1 colleges, working in FAANG/big 3/big 4.

Do not ever confuse education with degrees and family values!!

Source of thought: https://archive.fo/2023.08.05-180226/https://medium.com/fearless-she-wrote/the-sexist-objectification-of-brides-in-indian-wedding-traditions-ad0fae59cd3d