Live a Life Free of Regrets

for me. i spent college studying for grades and 20s making money in a job I don't like, but never got to make the memories I should've with all my friends. I regret doing all of that

A tiny seed dreamed of reaching the sun. It pushed through the rock, splitting its shell. It stretched towards the light, reaching higher and higher. Finally, it broke through the surface, basking in the sun's warm glow. But instead of a vast world, it found itself in a pot, surrounded by other plants. The seed realized its dream of reaching the sun wasn't about how high it grew, but where it grew. Moral: Happiness isn't always about achieving something grand, but finding joy in where you are.

I have been pursuing some aspirational products like Apple Watch SE, Airpods Pro 2, PS5 etc. since a long time. I go to the Amazon page and add it to cart but then my conscience questions me as to is it worth spending so much on it? I earn decently and live in BLR but still I dont fully understand to give my mind a valid reason for purchasing a 40k Watch that shows time, some metrics and some automation. Also 20k for listening music, 50k for playing games. It feels as if is it sane to spend much on these personal material stuff? How do you folks look at this while making purchases?

"I don't want to regret later"

It can be anything related to not doing something you always wanted to but never did, a mistake you realize you shouldn’t have made, or feelings of not being successful enough. Feel free to share your thoughts.

Have u ever resigned without any offer in hand? If yes what was the reason and how things went ahead??

I found an old form from 2013, my father had sent details Annual Income - 8L Education expense - 2.5L He is retired govt empl so couldn't lie on numbers I was in top autonomous institute, and my brother in good private school in Delhi It hits me now, how I wasted my life 'enjoying college' and thereafter Falling in and out of love Parents never say anything on practical topics, just regular wake up early, eat vegetables rant I fucked my life and how

All the things that one has done so far at times you feel you could have taken different path. Could have studies different subject (AI/ML/Tech?) Could have started something of your own after passing out from college Could have work harder on this which can give disproportionate returns( both personal and professional) Getting married early and investing as early as possible. I try to be grateful for things which I already have (and there are so many) but then there are moments where you feel you could have done better much better actually

I earn enough. Here are my problems: 1. Don’t have friends who I can talk to 2. Dating life is weird and complicated (can’t find someone I’m truly happy with) 3. Don’t enjoy living in blr 4. Don’t have tight bond with siblings or parents Suggest me some ways in which I can improve. Please only suggest things that worked for you.