Advice

Hey All,

I'm 26-M earning a descent salary(approx 40k per month). My family doesn't have any property/gold and we live in a rented house. 90% of my earnings goes to expenditure. And rest 10% goes to some or the other expenditures (like medicine, repairs, travelling etc). At the end of the month my bank account has around 1-2k.

I have no savings, no sip, no shares, no crypto nor additional source of income. I'm only running my entire house.

My parents want me to get married. My parents both have diabetes and my father is 60yrs old. He wants me to get married as soon as possible so that he can have a cool head.

The thing is, for marriage also there's no money saved, I have to take some loan (approx 2-3Lakhs) for the marriage.

Especially in my community, girls are very few in numbers and they have lot of expectations like own house, more than 15LPA, rental income etc etc.

I only expect one thing from the girl i.e she should be having a minimum degree and should be working.

But most of the girl's parents are rejecting because of my financial condition.

I'm in a dilemma whether to stop looking for marriages atleast for 2-3 years(so that atleast my salary would be increased by that time frame). But at the same time I'm feeling scared like once I cross 28 age it would be very difficult to find a match as at that time also I may not own a house.

Any guidance would be helpful😀