Women of GV. Hope to learn from you
It's not restricted to over 30 women. Open to all the women here irrespective of their age. From career to health, marriage , relationship, travel, goals. #Learn from experiences
samosa
Stealth
8 months ago
If he is putting effort, stick with him, don't hoeee around
FindingHorses
Stealth
8 months ago
Live away from your family. Travel, see the world.
D0nkey05
Stealth
8 months ago
Not a one-size-fits-all answer. Fortunately some have a lovely family :)
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Frostygig5
Stealth
8 months ago
Be financially independent. Have your own funds that can last upto 1 year. Keep upskilling , invest money, travel a lot . Be metally and physically healthy.
NearOrchid8
Student
8 months ago
nice way to found out the women on GV
UsernameChecksOut
Stealth
8 months ago
Exactly my thoughts 🤔
Don't shy away from the guys. Talk to people, work on social skills. Soft skills is so much more important, as you progress in your career. Especially if you're working in a men dominant atmosphere.
Invest your money in mutual funds from the day you first salary is credited, never delay it.
Don't live a life for external validation. Do things which make you happy.
Get Married only when you are financially, mentally and physically prepared for it not when society tells you. The same people will not be there for you when shit happens and will even judge you for the same.
The regret of not giving your best is way bigger than the regret of failing.
Never underestimate the importance of balanced diet, good sleep and regular exercise.
The only person who care about you is yourself. Not your parents, spouse, children or friend. Be strong enough for yourself.
Do not marry too early. Make your career, travel, learn to read people's mind.
Be self sufficient and ensure you constantly self evaluate yourself. Celebrate yourself for every achievement and don’t be harsh on yourself if you commit a mistake. Brace up and move on!
Toph56
Stealth
8 months ago
1. Take the shot. Think something is out of reach or you aren’t good enough / qualified enough, still take a shot.
2. Let your ambition / intent be known to people that matter
3. Good guys are hard to come by - especially ones that respect you as an individual and support you to dream bigger. When you find someone like that, hold on to them tightly.
4. Don’t let stereotypes guilt trip you - outsource and delegate freely - taking care of home, kids etc. if you have to
traveljunkie
Stealth
8 months ago
Love yourself! Do things for yourself because you want to not because society or your friends are doing it.
Increase your social circle. Your network is your net worth! Also, have a set of solid hobbies.
BlickCait
Stealth
8 months ago
Travel a lot, make working out a lifestyle change and start investing. These are practically things I started doing when I turned 25
TOTORO
Stealth
8 months ago
Financial independence is important but emotional independence is also important which I believe is rarely talked about among women.
"Bhai ka kat gaya" , "ladki ne kaat diya" mentality is there allllll over . A lot of men act extremely insecure, distrustful , quick to label women as something or the other.
Always believe in yourself, set your own standards of who you want to be. I've seen soo many cool women around me getting subtly pushed to act perfect all the time - too sweet , too understanding , jumping to make compromises for some cry baby man.
Try to remain grounded and know your worth.
Forget about relationships, marriage etc.
Stay away from social media. Don't let it get into your head.
Observe & speak less.
Define the limits of your relation with anyone without hesitation.
Focus on 1 things that you like to do & would like to continue doing as a career.
Read a lot. (Not fiction)
Don't shy away from showing gratitude. Same goes for apologies.
Keep it real.
AdamantBrainyGal
Stealth
8 months ago
Take more risks and learn self defence