

Birthday gift for my husband
Hi Viners, today I am here for a not so professional ask.
So my husband's birthday is coming in a month and I am already freaking out about what to gift him. It's been 3 years since we have been married, dated for 5 years before that.
I have already given him materialistic things like clothes, accessories, etc. etc. But at this point, I believe that we have surpassed that phase.
To all the male viewers, pls start shooting your ideas below. Also, he is 30+, just so you know😅

A handwritten letter goes a long way. You can add it with other gifts that you give :)

This is a great idea.🤎 How did I not think of this. Thank you so much @IdioticRust !!
Would be helpful if you can help with some "other gifts" ideas as well😅

A gift basket. His fav snacks, grooming products, gadgets, etc. Basically just a basket of different things he'll find useful :)

Give a gift which tells him that you still listen to him and cares for him...
- Buying a ticket to his favourite sports (Football, cricket) and if you know the team name then wonderful !
- Surprise holiday trip to the place where he wants to go... (May be a bike trip to ladakh as many men want to go there once but don't get the chance !)
- If you are looking for some things to spice up your marriage then couple massage, some sensual experience involving both of you could also work
- If he is stressed then 1-2 day resort relaxation or a small/long vacation would be a perfect gift
- If he is into collecting things or like some rare collections then you have your answer right in front of your eyes
- If he is a social person then you can arrange a surprise party with his/your/common friends...
At the end, if you can't plan anything then even if you'll share this thread with him.. he'll be happy to know that you have put in some effort to ask strangers about his birthday gift... Men are simple creatures !!

The last para was very sweet. Thanks @NaivePoint62 ☺️
Actually, planning a trip/party is too much load. I wanted to keep it simple. Just buy him something that makes his day. That's it. He is a simple man, no show baazi, nothing.🥹

Trips! Memories are quite possibly the best gift (subject to personal preferences)

He must be using something that has gotten old over time (old watch, clothes, accessories etc.). Men tend to use stuff for longer as they don't get bored with them so easily. But if you buy him a similar brand new piece, I think he would love it. This will also show him how well you observe those little things.

Oh boy, this is so true!!! I already have 3 ideas now. Thank you so much @Keenfoscion 😄😄

Ask him and take him out to buy it.
Men don't care much abt surprises. They know what they want and happy when they get. Else they fake their expressions and you would never know.

But how is it a surprise then?😕 Even if I ask, he usually uninterested.
What would you say if your wife asked you? Maybe this can help me get an idea😅

I really cannot think of anything that I want as a gift.
It wud be a new phone or something with specs that I hv marked down, so it cannot be a surprise gift. Same with shoes, pants, grooming stuff etc.

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