This week’s introspection

Bhai kaafi same lag raha hai. Idk kaha rehte ho tum, kitna kamate ho, wagerah but ek baat bolunga - start walking. Kabhi main street pe walk lagao, kabhi subah, kabhi kahin. Hum Jo ek jagah baithke sochte hai, vo chalte chalte bhi soch hi sakte lekin kaafi nayi cheezein dekhne milegi. Kuch aisa milega Jo vapas layega interest, I hope aisa ho

Ade l****, tu ga**u h kya ? Why you like this bro ? Chill ! Yeh kya spark, fire, kaddu lassan pe fase ho tum 🫠. Ek kaam kr. Ping all your friends. See if you can meet 2 or 3 of them this weekend. You people aren't kids anymore. Adults ! So, have the conversation of life, work, love and thoughts that are haunting you. Maybe your friends have been through the same journey. Maybe they know or know someone how to deal with this. Maybe that's how you were destined to meet your friends again in life and reestablish that bonding of friendship. Being the only son, its hard to not have anyone of your generation to talk about personal stuff. That's why we have friends. So go meet and bond with them. This might sound a bit creepy, but imagine the time when your parents leave you forever. Maybe you and your partner don't have that good bonding. No close cousins or relatives to talk with. This is where friends come to hold onto you. Bruh, psychologically speaking, all humans are extroverts by default. We are born to be social creatures. There is no such thing as introvert. It's all just mindset. So, take a chill pill and go hang out with your gang. Also don't worry if your life has been repetitive like you've mentioned. I know people who run businesses, are social media influencers...who earn 10x than what I do, but they don't have time to spend that money with family and friends. They can only spend with their co-workers and employees. Yes, you will say they'll make enough money, then retire and enjoy the rest of life. But bro, life todi na rukti hai ki "chalo bhai, mai abhi aapka life aur age freeze krti hu. Aap bohot saara paisa kamao. When you've earned enough, I'll unfreeze and you can enjoy your jawani and rest of life". Nhi na ? Toh kis baat k tension leneka ? Just keep doing good things, take care of yourself and your family, live a relaxed life.

My friend. You are more beautiful and important than you realise. Don’t think this way. Power on. There’s so much beauty in life you are about to see.

You need a girl or a hobby!

Been there. Few things have helped. 1. Having a routine -- feeling accomplished while doing small small activities daily 2. Being mindful -- eating lunch be mindful of the taste, texture of food; while working out be mindful of the breath, which muscle is getting streched etc. in short try to be attentive -- small things in life cam give joy this way 3.long term -- try meditation -- i did vipasanaa, you can try what suits you

Most of us have been struggling with same thoughts and life crisis. Kindly consider travelling to different places every 2 months. It keeps the spark alive. Also try inculcating some hobby apart from Gym.

Thankyou so much for writing this!!! It seems like someone wrote what I couldn't put into words. Ab jab job hai salary acchi hai, then parents wait me to get married. I never ever had a bf because my circumstances made my priorities different. Now I think its too late for everything, I'm 27, and my life is eat, sleep, code, play and sleep with all thoughts alone!!!!! It pains It pains a lot bro

sun bhai yeh spark nhi bacha etc is sab ke bare me gand mat mara , oo life is so sad i want to die etc etc, my foot, clearly you dont come from a family where you can make the world your playground , and money is flowing like river. so you have to get up and work everyday, life is supposed to be hard and you are supposed to be tough. you say you go gym everyday ? go get a six pack, then rethink about life.

Bhai Ghar Chala Ja thode din, and don’t stay at home there, step outside, try to participate in local events. Play cards/indoor games. Try to play cricket/football jo bhi loved playing. See people in your hometown might not seem as cool at first but they’re happier and you’ll get happy being with them if you let go of your ego on what is cool and what is cringe

Gym m interact nhi krta kya kisi se? Aur funda simple hai , log tere paas nhi aenge follow krke ki haan tujhe baat karni h and tu kaisa feel kar rha. Start making eye to eye contact with everyone, maintain a confident posture, and learn gratitude.

Dude, whoever has written this and others echoing thoughts above, please understand that this is a phase of life and everything passes by. LIFE IS MEANT FOR MORE THAN THESE. Make a habit to thank for small little things you got for that day and life seems blissful. Also, be grateful that you have your parents by your side and compare with others who don't have their parents and the challenges they have. If you are a private person, try to help someone if that males you happy. That brings a lot of happiness. Try talking to a kid/play with them for sometime. Also, we all have a child within us, so try to take things light. AFTERALL, THIS IS A JOB AND THIS IS NOT THE END. THERE IS MORE TO LIFE....STAY HAPPY, STAY BLESSED AND POSITIVE....

for everyone creating posts in Hindi.There are a lot of people here with other language as their mother tongue.Other mother tongue people never post in their language.You have to understand and respect that.Either post in English or don't post it.

So take a step back, introspect again, do what you love more and don’t try to be part of rat race. Everyone has a different pace in life! Not everyone is topper!

One solution: gratitude journaling. Might sound a bit Unrelatable to many but trust me, writing 2-3 points for which you're grateful for, every single day before going to sleep is no less than therapy. Our subconscious mind is a treasure and has the solutions of all our problems. Journaling is a practice that helps one unlock this treasure. It will not get u rid of your loneliness and will help u deal with it in a meaningful way. Maybe it will help u realize that u need to get in touch with your old frnds, chat up a bit with colleagues ( not all are bad tbh ), take interest in some sports, join a club, socialize a bit more and so on... Gratitude journaling... Try it today bro! You won't regret it.

This is the life of every person who is single. Man or woman They just pretend to enjoy life with mindless consumerism. Welcome to the club.

Shadi kar lo bhai

Buy a PS5

I'm going to share some unconventional wisdom that was given to me. I hope this is not taken in the wrong way, it's meant to break our conventional perceptions more than anything else. # when there are constant thoughts where death seems like an easier option, it is not really you that's asking for it, but your ego. Because the way your ego gained satisfactions is not being fed in the same way anymore. # this is a signal from your ego for the need to relinquish your current identity and put it to rest. Take the best parts of you and be reborn like a phoenix from the ashes of burning yourself. # what you're describing seems symptomatic of an ego death and a dark night of the soul. The dark parts of you will actually give you guidance and teach you how to be more authentic to your own self. # find someone who can show you the beauty in the mundane. There is an infinite depth to anything we lay our focus on. If we've lost it, look for inspiration by observing those around you. The spark will come. Stay strong, accept that you are insignificant, and by doing so, you have the potential to see infinity in the smallest of things. Do your best. I hope that you enjoy who you become on the other side of this journey. 🙏

Bro i would say start exploring places in the world.

I have the same feeling. Living in my hometown since covid WFH. There is nothing much to do. I am thinking about moving to a city with family. At least there will be few entertainment items.