Thoughts Needed
My employer talks to me in a way that I don't feel good. I feel inferior. I also get to learn a lot. What do you think I should do? 1. Be in the company and listen to his bitter voice. 2. Leave the company but that can hinder my growth.
Are you the only one who feels this way or there are others too?
Feedback is also a matter of how you receive it.
Condition yourself to see the message and not be clouded by the emotion of receiving it. It does look like the message benefits you.
DermiCool
Student
10 months ago
I don't know about others. It's possible that it's because of my age. I am 18 so everyone just boasts on me.
If the learning is great, I'd ignore the noise and make the most of the signal.
I used to HATE my boss in one of my earliest roles. Made me do inane tasks, heavy output work that required a lot of time and grind - we worked 20 hour days as a matter of routine, but he used to be with us on the late nights too.
On one such late night I told him he should get a life - because he was definitely screwing up mine.
Many many many years later I realised, that time was one of my best learning periods and he was a great teacher. Very patient and moulded the right kind of behaviour and especially ingrained an obsessive attention to detail.
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MightyLazyGeekStar
Stealth
10 months ago
Stick till you get something better. Its always better to have another offer than nothing at all in this climate
DermiCool
Student
10 months ago
@MightyLazyGeekStar
Sometimes I feel that he's playing with my self respect and values.
Also, getting a higher paid job will need lots of networking and experience which I don't possess nor do I have time to do so.
What should I do ?
MightyLazyGeekStar
Stealth
10 months ago
Ideally in that case you should quit right now but to be honest there is no assurity that the next company you’d go to would fare any better.
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FindingHorses
Stealth
10 months ago
What do u do I see u mentioned 10k per month?
DermiCool
Student
10 months ago
I create content for LinkedIn, create Carousels, and write blogs.
DermiCool
Student
10 months ago
@FindingHorses Hope you got the answer in the thread man.
Take the learning advice and ignore the rest . Also try finding a better job asap. If this is affecting mental health just resign. But beware most people in India don’t know how to treat juniors.
DermiCool
Student
10 months ago
@TepidFanny11
I am getting paid peanuts and I don't have any network. The one companies in which I can get into are also paying the same.i.e. 10 k
Qwerty2398
Stealth
10 months ago
Leave the company. When resigning, just send an email. Nothing more.
DermiCool
Student
10 months ago
Then where will the bread come @Qwerty2398
World is full of horrible bosses. If you leave this now, what are the chances you’ll get a good one later? It’s okay if he is bitter. Look at the plus side, you’ll get to learn a lot. His bitterness is a small price you pay to learn the work. I saw you are 18. It’s great you get to work at 18. People might treat you different because you are young. Don’t take it to heart. You’re here to learn. That’s the only thing that matters. When you move on to your next job, you’ll have lots of learning, plus, an experience of dealing with shitty people very early on… trust me corporate is full of em. Managing them whilst still doing a good job is an art. I hope you learn that too during your current stint
