Hi All,
I'm 24 years old. This is my first time writing a long paragraph.
So, basically, I am from a middle-class family. Everything was good in our family before the corona pandemic. After the last wave, my mother passed away, and everything collapsed for us. I didn't realize that losing one of the family members would change our lives upside down. Still, we held on tight.
After a few days, we left our village and moved to my dad's work location. Now, our family has 3 members: me, my dad, and my elder sister who is 26 years old. After shifting to a new location, my sister received a marriage proposal. The boy was decent, not very rich, just middle class. So, everything got settled, and my sister married him.
But after marriage, things didn't go well. There were fights, and her husband only listened to his mom. They tortured her mentally. She is innocent and never told us anything. After 3 years of marriage, they were blessed with a baby boy, and suddenly one day, my sister confided in my father and me that they were mentally torturing her. My father told me not to go, and they said, "Don't come; give us our baby and stay there."
The baby is with us now, but I'm really worried about my sister and the baby's future. Not a single relative is with us. I don't know with whom I should discuss these things. These things are affecting me mentally. Unable to study and focus on work even on health.
And don't know why sometimes I think more about society and what they will say now. She has a cute child now and what will happen to him even if we are there to support but still she will need a life partner. And if she returned to that home they will torture more and more.
Please suggest what to do.
I deeply consolidate with you and Don't think be weak instead start focusing on solutions..she is so young and great woman..give her strength and power 💪🏻🔥.and don't expect anything from outside..u your siblings are enough for her..try to focus on building her ..give her good career advice it's never too late ..me myself is a girl I can understand her because I have been about to get into such phase in my life but i didn't married instead i opted for making myself..
So support her mentally and emotionally..let her grow up and initiate new things.. definitely very soon she will become so self independent and you all gonna feel proud together.. May goddess brings all happiness to her ,child and you all. Always stay together.you all are enough for eachother and don't care about people. Stay super loving caring and share unconditional love together always.. God has so bigger plans for you all .
We are always with her. But as we moved to the new city she lost her friends and now she is totally alone so I don't know what she is thinking and from what she is going through. She always blames herself for getting married with the wrong person. She doesn't have any friends to share things with and this is the main concern I have about her.
And as you mentioned to support for hee career we are looking for it. But because of the baby she is not getting enough time to study because she needs to give more time to the baby as he is 11 months old. The things didn't go as expected as her expectations and she always thinks about the society. I am just worried in future when she will look at her friends somewhere she will miss her partner. Hope so god has better plan for her.
Bhai 🙏with you
May be you need to find a divorved partner for her
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