Am in my mid 30s from south working in Mumbai for a PSU. I’ve been declined in matrimony websites owing to location and perception of PSU. Is this the new normal?
Ab sarkari Naukri walo ko nhi mil rhi, fir leke kaun Jaa rha saare matches?
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Warning People will find this harsh/
The problem is with the filters : Religion, region, Caste, subcaste, education, background, salary, working better half, etc.. Ye Saare filter lagne ke baad the guy has 10-50 options only but like a fool the guy/gals rejects the 50 of them in the hopium they get from insta that I do deserve better than this. Only to fall in the ditch and realize.
Dont fall for the numbers on matrimony website. These websites don't even make money and they boast of numbers as of every match was made through them. Some profiles are as old as 4-5 years.
The rare few understand it early. Rest suffer to realise the reality of the world.
Yeah exactly... people try to find a person with exact attributes and qualities that they expect in a partner. The question is does the person really exist in the real world..are the expectations too idealistic. Even if the person exists he/she would have lots of options what are the chances of them choosing me. I've seen people having idea that I deserve the best but if everyone thinks the same way then we have a stalemate.
I believe if people try to ward off expectations not necessary for a relationship and comprise and adjust happily for partner then everybody will be happy.
I am curious as to how the current marriage matchmaking dynamics will change in future
If you're looking for a housewife, contact relatives and spread the word about finding the girl, that girls will be far better than matrimony chicks...
