I get attached to little things. How can I stop being weak?

I took my day off (Monday) as I was feeling a little tired. But I really did not stop thinking about work, even though I was not supposed to. I think I might be attached to my workplace/work/ project, a little too much. Do you viners also face this? If so, how do you tackle this?

Hi all, I started playing/ learning tennis around 1.5 yrs back . what started as a hobby or means to stay fit has now turned into addiction sort of ( for the lack of better word ) . I keep thinking about playing well all the time. I become angry and irritated when I do not play well. it has started to affect me mentally . any tips on overcoming this

I might delete this post later but recently I came across a tweet that says the average body count of girls in Mumbai, Pune and Bangalore is more than their age. So are hookups these common? I myself live in Mumbai and I am 21 year old guy and still virgin and I feel left out seeing the people talking so much about sex online and telling that they are hooking up and all. I want to know who are these people, like most of the girls I know in my friend circle are virgin and they are not looking for hookups, so who are these people having sex and what is the average age of these people because I can't find the age mentioned anywhere. And should I be worried because although I am 6 feet tall and handsome guy and still virgin and single, if yes then please give some advice.

I’ve noticed different people have different ways to approach their financial planning. Hoping to learn from each other and perhaps help others who read as well.

At the risk of sounding weak, this has become more and more rampant with me. It feels as if I am living someone's elses life. Somedays I just feel like living a life thats pointless. These are the days when I feel very prone to these emotional impulses of sudden "lonlinesss" (despite having few of the most amazing people in my life) or "emptiness" or "anti-gratitude/self-destruction". So much mental lethargy behing these useless chain of thoughts. Am I the only one? Have I lost it? Am I sensitive? Is it a bad thing? Am I overworked? Am I too critical about my thoughts? Man this is so confounding.

Mine is Anxious 😭

I've been seeing a lotta posts where men are venting about not being able to find the right girl, so just wanted to know whether it's the same for women too Here in Bangalore its hard to find a quality guy smh, (emphasis on quality). Dating apps are a dead end and even when you have organic “meet cutes” the men end up saying they want something casual and don't want to commit. How do you deal with this? Or rather, how do you distract yourself from these kinda feelings? P.S: don't come at me saying “its harder for men” - I'm sure it is lol I just want to know if there are women who also resonate with what I feel.

This advice on one of my posts has stayed with me Sometimes seemingly simple phrases have such deep effect Thanks @MicahBell