My GFs and my family are now soon to be in talking stage and it's already fucking up our mind.
My parents want to do it ASAP and her's want to have sometime. Every single day we're just balancing and cursing our decision.
For context: it's typical interstate, inter caste one and we have know each other for 8 years.
Why does it need to be so hard? Both the families are in opposite directions. š„²
If her parents want to take some time, this means that they are not sure about you and might also be looking for more options meanwhile.
No parents (especially girl's) want to delay their children' s wedding.
What you need to do is give them a sense of assurance that you can take care of their daughter, provide and care for her. Once they see you're worthy of their daughter, they'll rush the whole thing more than you.
I myself was going through the same phase 1 momth back, we both told our parents on day 0, day 7 i was meeting her family (they were 80% satisfied), day 14 her family visited mine (100% satisfied), day 15 we had our roka ceremony.
It all comes down to how assured they are of you and how well can you convey this to each other's parents.
Hope this helps.
Makes sense
Seems like her parents aren't confident in you. Take them out for lunch or dinner and have a talk with them and provide them assurances
Bro. Take my advice seriously. Marriage isnāt worth it. Youāll only realise when you start missing the freedom you had in your youth
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