I am working hard on my myself Gym study work sleep Make sure everything is completed on time So that the schedule doesn't mess up
But Why? I get a feeling of someone I need To tell everything how my day went Bhai PTA hai mai ugly hoon Theek hai Par yar ek limit hoti hai in thoughts k
In my WorkSpace I make sure to keep professional bonds with my team
Ghar aata hoon to Kayi bar phone ko dekhta hoon Na h koi call Message
Bus office wala phone h hai Jo phone lagta hai PTA nhi ye sab kyu ho rha mere sath Akele marna likha hai Phir bhi dimaag ghumta h hai Dhere Dhere confidence peace self esteem Mar rahe hai These thoughts are winning
..... Mere Ghar par koi nhi hai Na h Bhai behen 1 dost hai wo busy rehta
Kayi bar marne ka bhi man karta I close my eyes and cry sometimes Ek normal routine wala Banda is had tak emotionally har chuka hai Kya pap kiya hoga maine
@Yui sorry to hear this man. Bro Rab nu yaad kr sb vdeeya hojega. Bro why don't you DM ME, let's call... I also like to talk a lot.. And share about day.. (I am straight btw so don't take it other way)
Yui naam k drama se related lag raha hai. Ladke nhi dekhte mostly . Dont worry you are not losing straightness.
Bro kuch smj ni aaya. Type in English please or in a better hindi
there are certain skills like socialising and talking to people and ( you didn’t about parents so not saying that part but try opening up to parents)
… so you 1st thing is you are blaming those skills with your looks.
2nd thing is you are completely ignoring the statistics that no one calls you OR you not getting any messages, bro/bhai I have many many friends, many are close but even I will get less messages, in-fact in most close friends group I’m the only one who will message and break the silence and initiate.
So the point i’m telling is people with work and family commitments will call you less and you are bound to become lonely, this experience is almost with everyone.
3rd , it fine yaar , its hard skill honestly to maintain a friend, I have started to loose many close friends and the circle is shortening year by year. But one thing is you will find a person with whom you will spend few months, he will be your good friend in that time period and then suddenly you will never talk to him , try bonding with such people and try to make someone your good and then close friends over the years.
Exactly
about self esteem and confidence, you can start accepting that yes you have less friends and yes you are bad at making it , then you should stop blaming these things to your looks and other stuffs because these things aren’t relevant. Then you need to clean your sub conscious thoughts, this helps to improve your self esteem, start initiating talks and dialogue, if you think you failed instead of blaming feel good that you tried , these kind of mindset will improve your self esteem and small small initiative will improve your confidence
Dude get hold of yourself...
I am, trying my best But I can't win everytime Looks like my time is ending
What's your age dawg??
Find a hobby club. Go to billiards and snooker clubs. Start playing with them. Talks will happen.
Find nearby sports club and take classes for tennis or badminton. You will find partners to play and talk.
Find anything like that. When you are good at something , people will come and talk. Make yourself good at something.
Master a game or life skill ( not technology). Then see the difference. Matter of few months only.
Read astrology if it raises interest. Learn palmistry. Everyone will give their hand to you to read.
Imagine that.
I have all above (billiards, tennis, swimming, astrology , palmistry) successfully in last 15-20 years and made friends along the way. Friends will come and go but some new connection will be there every week or month with whom you can spend time. And one of them may stay for long term.
to be frank, I am in a similar state. Work, sleep, work, gym, read, study, music, repeat. I used to talk with people, but these days I don't find enough time, nor enough energy to socialize. This might sound like a very philosophical message but the truth is, at the end of the day everyone is alone. People who talk and interact with you see a version of you that fits their interest. And nobody can truly fulfill you as a person, because a different mind and a different person will always have issues in understanding your own self. So brother, here is what I find peaceful. Make peace with yourself, until you are completely satiated with your very own company, your very self you won't find peace. Socialize, read, meet with people (meetup is really good for that), Interact. Maybe read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius and try to see that at the end of the day, the true independence comes from relying on ourselves.
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