Wtf 😳
This happened to me at my first job at a startup (Series B/C). Founder messaged that they are going to have lunch, so I can join along if available.
I was busy working on another thing so I just said I’m caught up with XYZ work, and will join as soon as it wraps up. (I thought work is the most important, not having lunch with them)
Suddenly got a call from the cofounder asking wtf I’m doing that’s more important than a lunch with the CEO.
Anyway, I abandoned work, left for lunch. Later got to know they termed it a CLM aka ‘career limiting move’