Ladies, what are your relationship life lessons?

I will go first, never be someone’s 2nd choice. A guy I liked told me that he loved me and that I will be the first one he calls if he breaks up with his gf. Spoiler alert, now they’re married and we don’t talk anymore. I wasted my time being on the bench for him and wasted too many birthdays crying & waiting for him to wish me (he never did) Lesson learned!

They were in an LDR and he kept me in the grey about his relationship. And meanwhile he love bombed me, told me that he loves me, wants to talk to me all the time, fantasises about me, sent me his snaps. He literally told me that he loved me while his gf was creating Pinterest boards for ‘wedding inspo’ and asked me to be his fwb.

I made the mistake of believing him, falling for him and not leaving his ass sooner.