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I met a guy over reddit few weeks ago. We both talked about our workplace issues, about mba entrance exam prep and few other things. He mentioned he liked talking to me and so did I.
But he never told me his name or anything about his identity as he mentioned how people spend a lot of time in the beginning to get to know each other and this might be a distraction since both of us are preparing for mba entrance this year.
Few days ago, he texted me that this texting consumes a lot of time and energy and he feels exhausted and he doesn't have the bandwidth as he needs to fully focus on his preparation for now.
So he stopped talking to me and mentioned how he is still interested in being friends after the entrance exam in November.
I want to understand a guy's perspective here. Do guys leave everything to focus on their career? Am I being unreasonable for feeling bad about this situation? Is it okay to sometimes prioritise career in our 20s and leave everything else? I feel there could be a balance but would like to know a third opinion.
Do guys leave everything to focus on career - > They can and there's nothing wrong with it AM I being unreasonable feeling bad? - > No, you got attached. You guys had different priorities, hence you are suffering Is it okay to prioritize career in 20s.. - > Nothing wrong with it
He always kept his priorities transparent and that's a rare trait, especially on anonymized platforms. So, if you are okay waiting, wait until November and resume conversation. Else, you can move on now and that's a completely different acceptable reaction.
Obviously if you want Yo Go Gurl, He's an asshole, You ditched a red flag kind of responses, you should post in TwoX India and they will give you the validation
This^ happened with me as well but it was the girl who wanted to focus on MBA and career.
Can't help it in twenties, everyone's trying to figure out careers and education. Often involves moving abroad too. Everyone should prioritise it as well, partners will come and go in lifetime but without career you can't do much in life.
+100 to what @DaringTrain said
Plus if you are getting attached to anon username, it is not the person but your perception of the person. The only things you know are what they tell you. While in real world, you can look up (stalk) much more information on the person
He might be coming from a humble background and may have some responsibilities.
And yeah we boys leave everything for our goals ššš
got it, thanks for your message
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