According to u, what are the mistakes u feel your previous generation folks did, which you will be careful and avoid at any cost. Thoughts r welcome.
They made their life completely revolve around kids. Everything, from savings to vacation plans, were planned around kids, making little space for adults. The reality hit them badly when kids left the house and adults felt helpless when gravity of their world shifted out. I feel adults, just as other humans should keep their individualities alive.
Underrated. A lot of the problems everyone else will write actually stem from this.
Parents put constant pressure on their child for studies and whole school college life revolved around academics only ie on studies,marks scored in exams etc.Not on holistic development.Many parents have no idea that to it is equally important to have their child learn other things be it arts hobbies etc, go out to play sports with friends, live their childhood,learn to be social, empowering them to take responsibilities, guiding them to grow into a mature person who can take care of himself/herself and them once they grow old but no they restrict their children to studies only.The result is when they grow up doing only one thing ie studies they have no idea how real world works, how to deal with challenges life throw at them that every adult has to face. I could write 1000 words essay on this sole topic from my own experience which I would never wish on anyone.PS- Whatever things that lacked here I had mentioned it is not a rich kid privileges only, even a middle class parent can take out some time to be with their child, talk like a friend and guide them.Every kid needs love and affection along with discipline to grow into a wonderful person.
My parents didn’t beat me. Only once in my childhood. I wish they would be beaten me. That would help me to be more disciplined.
Grass is always greener haha. Bhai jisko Peeta voh puche kyu Peeta, jisko nahi voh bole kyu nahi Peeta.
Sab moh maya hai. PS5 lo, baat khatam
Haha. Jo parents har chhoti galti par peete tab toh toxic parents kahlayenge par badi galti par thodi kuitaai ho sakti hain. Waise good parenting ho toh bacche kabhi kuchh galat nahi karenge aur disciplined rahenge. I guess jab parents lead-pyaar mein bachcho ki galatiya ignore kar dete hain tabhi bachche bigad jaate hain. Bina Pete Indian parents agar samjhana sikh jaye toh badhiya toga.
Apne circles me faltu ki bakwas karna like mera beta yeh kar raha hai and woh kar raha hai and all that bs.
Seeing many older folks and parents/grandparents including my own constantly glued to their phones or TV because they don't have anything to do.
can anyone recommend good hobbies that are easy to do and offline for older people?
My 2 cents to future Richie Rich parents:
Kids are growing up in a fast paced and curiosity driven environment. the dopamine hit is crazy on kids these days. I would not simply blame social media for all of these uncultured activities w...
