PrancingKoala
PrancingKoala

My bestfriend is going to the USA soon. Should I confess my feelings to her?

My bestfriend is going to the USA. She has gotten an admit to a very prestigious university for MS in CS. I have known her all my life and have had a crush for almost 15 years now.

I never had the guts to say it to her because the timing was never convenient. We used to hangout together a lot. She was also in a relationship on and off with this guy. Maybe she did not see me as boyfriend material or I don't know. But I always wanted to be with her.

I never looked at any other girl because I knew I liked her. So I waited and waited. Hoping that she would see me the way I saw her. She would love me the way I wanted to love her. But mard apni pasandeeda aurat ke lie kuch bhi kar sakta hai. So I decided not to confess my feelings to her.

I did not want to jeopardise my friendship with her. But now that she is leaving for USA. I am scared we will not talk as much. Should I confess my feelings or let her go?


Passenger: "You only miss the sun when it starts to snow. Only know you love her when you let her go" ❤️‍🩹

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SleepyBurrito
SleepyBurrito
Amazon10mo

Dude, if she's going to the USA, it means she has evaluated her options and is leaving. Leaving you is a part of that deal. What will you gain by confessing your love. Will she stay back? No. Will she do a long distance relationship with you while she has the world open to her in the USA? Heck no. Tata bye bye, keep in touch, move on with YOUR life, just as she is moving on with hers.

SwirlyKoala
SwirlyKoala

Regrets can kill a person for life.

SleepyBurrito
SleepyBurrito
Amazon10mo

Yes but regret over the right things. Not a chick who is essentially leaving you explicitly.

PerkyBagel
PerkyBagel

Agar aap dono ka dharam ek hi hai toh kyun nahi

JazzyUnicorn
JazzyUnicorn
HCL9mo

😂

JazzyWalrus
JazzyWalrus
TCS9mo

Are you for real bro 🤣

ZestyPotato
ZestyPotato

Go for it brother I missed my chance , believe me bro it still hurts. You have to confess bro if not now then at some point in time you have to confess and will have similar doubts There will never be a perfect time. Just tell her whole heartedly. Hope she agrees

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

If she is going to the USA, you already lost her

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus
CARS2410mo

15 years - crush nhi bolte, pyaar bolte.

<But now that she is leaving for USA> Confess! Before some idiot gets on knee for her in USA

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus
CARS2410mo

Hold on! Why do you have a ring on that finger

JazzyUnicorn
JazzyUnicorn
HCL9mo

Samjhe Daya, Dal mai kuch kala hai 🫣

TwirlyDonut
TwirlyDonut
MathCo10mo

Wait you both holded hands and took this picture “as friends” ?

SwirlyKoala
SwirlyKoala

Whatever you choose to do. Please update us, we will be eagerly waiting for your move.

GroovyCupcake
GroovyCupcake

Confess asap :) all the best!

SqueakyTaco
SqueakyTaco

Bhai mat bol lmao. Girls go to the US and are always on the lookout for good looking guys from AROUND THE WORLD.
I don't think you stand a chance now.
Also this is the worst timing to tell her. Absolutely don't do it.

GigglyPanda
GigglyPanda
TCS9mo

Bhai tu apne kaam par dhyan de aur use MS karne jaane de waise bhi US main use tere saath bakchodi karne ka samay nahi milega. Isliye chod aur aage badh. Aur waise bhi real love ka matlab sacrifice hi hai aur iss tarah Kam se kam tu apni dosti usse life time nibha sakta hai.

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