Given your low cashflow/salary, I am assuming you can pay around 15k a month in EMIs. If you get a loan of 15L at 8.5% interest rate for 20 years, then your monthly EMIs would be around 13 to 15k a month. But by that time, you would have paid twice ie. around 31L. Still, you will be doing all the maintenance, renovations etc. and because it is a flat, you won't have much freedom outside your flat so with the building structure degrades with time, your problems will also increase. Selling an old flat will be harder and even if you sell before 20 years, you will still be stuck with a loan that will consume your profits from the sale of the flat.
So don't buy, keep money so that you can invest in upskilling and get a better job that will increase your income and savings. I know it is hard to live on rent but you are young and so is your family, moving around should be easy. You should prioritize your savings and investments instead of settling down.