need some advice to find a gf

Buy a Lambo. Dress seh kuch nahi hone wala.

You are talking/approaching every eligible girl as 'potential girlfriend' Looking to get yourself a girl, rather than considering what is something a girl would like about you.

Also, women can smell desperation, and run in opposite direction

Try to practice being alone 😔

So this is the post you were referring to, since you are asking for advice and I have some free time then why not ?

• "nothing is helping me get a girlfriend"

• "what do I lack in getting girls"

These two lines kind of gives me a picture of what exactly is your frame of mind. And more than your clothes these need a change.

See to be admired by someone you need to have some qualities that the other person doesn't have/admires, ask yourself this,

• What is so special about me ?

• What are those things that make me proud of myself ?

• What for do I need a gf ? What void is she filling in ? Is it just sexual ? Or something else ?

Once you find answers to these questions, you will know exactly what to do.

One last thing girls are not Pokemon that you wanna get one, these are people just like us who want more or less the same things.

Still if you want some actual practical advice I would suggest:

1. Get emotionally detached from "girls" and ask out as many "girls" out possible (irl not online)

This requires courage but is the best approach possible.

2. Accept and surrender, if it's meant to be, you will meet her and if it's not then accept that also and have courage to move on.

3. Do good to society and learn to be happy yourself.

Again my words may sound harsh but my intentions are friendly plus I genuinely don't think it's that hard to get in a relationship, I mean poor girls are always crying about not finding a nice guy. So be one.