Hi guys I am facing some issues with my family members, they are constantly trying to convince me to get married with someone, although my mom is supportive but my dad is not, I am fighting with them almost everyday, i somehow left my job life been on bench since long periods, not able to Focus properly on my health, not able to sleep properly at night time, got infections in my body, I am feeling shattered don't know what should I do
I'm 26F working in an IT service based company, I need your suggestions guys
Thank you
@PAPR whatever you do, just do not start hating the marriage. Infections doesn't last long. You will get better. why you think the time is not right? What difference would it make in a year. What if you are in same state after a year what then? Fix your mind first.
This is the most sensible comment I read.
Tell them that you identify yourself as a male and that they should find a girl...
On a serious note tell your father that you don't want To Marry this person and you'd better stay single and happy than mingled and unhappy
But as I am a female working, everyone in this universe is trying to convince me to get married, like they are playing with emotions or what I don't know, but feel vulnerable each day each time, i feel lost
In Indian house it's near to impossible to convince parents for marriage why you not want to get married and all, it's just very very very difficult.........
Hi , I read this and can relate so much. I’m facing same problem and I’m constantly nudging my manager to get me in another proj. I’m thinking of moving out because I feel suffocated at my home. I’m 27F and I’m living each day fighting with my parents that I don’t want to get married now because there’s nobody in my sight yet. The pressure was so much that I tried matrimony but I never wanted to be part of this matrimony thing and it really doesn’t make any sense to me.
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