Not sure where I am heading, what will be my future?
I writing my thoughts about me(26 years) , I am web developer with 3.5 years right working at Amazon as web developer contract employee ending in Dec , looking for full times roles to join right now , I from a petroleum engineering background (2019 passed out ) later learnt software engineer frontend mostly from my brother's help & through online resources built personal projected ,started career in 2020 by joining a MNC as contractor developer worked there 4 months in 2020, then joined another startup their for 3 months , then 8 months at a startup , then 1 year 8 months at us startup but had a layoff in Feb , then joined Amazon contract through a referal( current CTC 12LPA). Not sure where will I work next ? Sometimes I feel lost & have imposter sendrome like in close to 4 years what have I learnt & excelled?when will I earn more ?
But I have a many ambitious like built my own startup , write articles and earn, travel for treking , become fit, become a indie hacker , speak at conference internationally as well, work at top startups & innovate things?
Not sure how to plan things & grow in my career ? Maybe 1 or 2years before marriage ? Not sure how I plan to have a stable job and grow in my career with better salary before marriage?
Apply some navratna oil on ur head and sleep .. will answer tomorrow
Masterbate and sleep
He just did. On this grapevine community.
Bro, you have to start by breaking down your problems and goals into smaller pieces and then tackle each independently. That’s a good skill to develop now.
Step 1. Write down on paper what goals you want to achieve, money wise, lifestyle etc. Step 2. Write down the steps needed to make those goals reality. Follow these steps one by one.
Over time you will reach your desired goals. It takes consistency. You don't have to do it in one step alone. That's just my 2 cents. Probably people more experienced in life than me will chime in too.
Your career is in your hands. External factors probably aren’t. Focus on yourself and make right calls accordingly. Once you see that you are stable then make calls about marriage. Obviously a contractual job may not be defined as stable to some but what really matters is if you are content and happy with where you are at the moment.