Last Friday I went on a date with a girl from Gurgaon and it was the biggest mistake of my life. I was apprehended by her brother's friend at Ambience Mall. How? We were having a milkshake from Keventer's where some guy randomly pops out and starts enquiring about what we were doing.
The thing escalated and he said he will call police. I got scared. Then he motioned for someone, and that guy started misbehaving with us as well. It was becoming very stressful and I asked , "Tum chahte kya ho?" He was like, "Mhaare doston ko bhi thoda Milkshake Wilkshake pilao bhai." (Get milkshakes from KLeventers for our friends too). I was like, "Huh?" He demanded cash and said that he will get it himself. I gave them all cash I was carrying, some 2500 rupees and ran away. I think the girl was in on it too.
What should I have done?
I don't think you could have done anything different.
But consider this as a narrow escape and from the next time please be extra careful when going on a date.
Issn't a mall, a public place, perfect for first dates? Just curious because even I prefer going to a mall.
Yes that's a good place in general but unfortunately there's always a Tom and Jerry type chase between scamsters and victims.
Day by day they are getting advanced so anyone would have to proceed more carefully.
In his case next time, he can probably have his friends nearby or he can focus more on some potentially suspicious things about his date partner profile and behaviour which he might have ignored this time by giving a benefit of doubt.
What should I have done?
You ran You did the right thing. As a reward here is your free hoodie-
@Elon_Musk Thank you Musk sahab
I would say- refuse to give them what they ask. You have done nothing wrong. Even if police comes, what can they do? You are in middle of a crowded place, they can’t harm you.
When we submit to the likes of these scamsters, we encourage them to keep dothings like this.
It was a safe setting for you to simply refuse and complain the nearby mall security.
Yeah. This. I don't understand why others are saying cash deke sahi kia.
That works if you have multiple people around you who know you.
Otherwise they'll just file a case alleging you outraged her modesty.
Bhai inki gend mein hath dedeta…you should’ve said ki call the police. This is molestation, you didn’t forced the girl to come with you and you and her are both mature enough to take decisions. Bro never get afraid of such fraudsters.
What if girl was a part of this too. Or she gets scared that this thing would escalate and she would switch sides. And then you know how laws in India are...
In OP's case, he just got scammed..
Bro…buddy must have records with him..like chats. That’s enough to prove that she was not forced to come with him. It was her own will See brother….these people consume only those who get afraid easily and surrender themselves and run. If you’ve not done anything wrong you should not fear any living entity on this earth. It’s your confidence and your believe which make these people weak else they’ll eat you whole easily.
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