Started my first relationship with a girl 2 weeks ago. Requesting people to share wisdom on how to proceed. We went on a date today, it was great and we talk daily before sleeping. Consider me a noob.
Get her flowers, regularly. It doesn't have to be anything expensive. A regular rose or gerbera is also fine. Sometimes you can get a little fancy and make it a bouquet. Nothing works it's magic more than a flower does on a girl.
P.S. Free Tip- Tell her that the flower reminded you of her hence you got her one (she'll melt believe me)
Thank me later đ
don't do this unless you are sure that you both want it,
if you do this just for the sake of it, she will like you more than you actually do, hence imbalance and hence problems
if you do this at the start of the relationship, make sure you would have to do this till the end of it or else youâll be tagged as a different person later on đ
ego is the enemy. Jinko aap pyaar karte ho aap unhe Jeetne dete ho, be it an argument, be it difference of opinion.
donât let any 3 person come in between you two. Donât bitch about her to your friends, donât share your relationship insights with them, donât seek their guidance same goes for her. Itâs your own journey. The day any of you will start confiding peace by sharing whatâs happening in your relationship to a 3rd person, the end will start from there.
donât take her for granted just because the chase is over.
donât not let her disrespect you at any cost, any moment ever. Fights will happen eventually, sheâll get angry and disrespect you and later on sheâll come and say sorry she didnât mean it. Buddy she very well did. Anger donât make you a demon it just heightens what you really think deep inside. Youâll let her disrespect you once and you donât put an end to it sheâll do it again. Vice versa.
there will be other boys who will be earning more than you, better looking than you, more witty, more intelligent than you who will be friends with your girlfriend. Donât be INSECURE at any cost. She choose you above everyone else, remember that and maintain it. The moment youâll start getting insecure your behaviour towards her will change, youâll become bitter. Sheâll not like and reciprocate in the same way and then negative spiral will happen.
You got the girlfriend, box is tick. Now donât go around window shopping hoping to attract even more beautiful or successful girl. Focus that energy on your career and yourself.
Do not mix your friend circles, keep your friend circle and girlfriend separate. And donât try to get into her friend circle. Youâll thank me later if things go wrong, I hope it doesnât.
Read and re - read it untill it sinks in. Godspeed
Also do not expect any of the above things if you are doing the same for her
Donât disrespect her Donât let her be insecure
Itâs not 50-50 Itâs 100% of yours and 100% of hers
Firstly, pleasant wishes for you.
You are asking us to broach on a topic that is too vast and broad. You should narrow it down to the areas where you feel you might need suggestions or a piece of advice on. Also, do describe your girlfriend a bit so that we could identify potential red flags or grey areas and how to navigate around them.
Good luck either way.
