uncleCharlie
uncleCharlie

Started a Relationship

Started my first relationship with a girl 2 weeks ago. Requesting people to share wisdom on how to proceed. We went on a date today, it was great and we talk daily before sleeping. Consider me a noob.

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uniqueorn
uniqueorn

Get her flowers, regularly. It doesn't have to be anything expensive. A regular rose or gerbera is also fine. Sometimes you can get a little fancy and make it a bouquet. Nothing works it's magic more than a flower does on a girl.

P.S. Free Tip- Tell her that the flower reminded you of her hence you got her one (she'll melt believe me)

Thank me later 🙅

samosa
samosa

don't do this unless you are sure that you both want it,
if you do this just for the sake of it, she will like you more than you actually do, hence imbalance and hence problems

loveless
loveless

if you do this at the start of the relationship, make sure you would have to do this till the end of it or else you’ll be tagged as a different person later on 🙂

MrBlunt
MrBlunt

Bas "we talk daily before sleeping* ko "we talk daily before sleeping together" tak le jaana hein....

uniqueorn
uniqueorn

😂😂😂😂😂😂

PMM_2yr
PMM_2yr

😂😂😂😂😂bang on man.

Aragorn_urf_Maverick
Aragorn_urf_Maverick
uncleCharlie
uncleCharlie

😂😂

Enchanter404
Enchanter404
  1. ego is the enemy. Jinko aap pyaar karte ho aap unhe Jeetne dete ho, be it an argument, be it difference of opinion.

  2. don’t let any 3 person come in between you two. Don’t bitch about her to your friends, don’t share your relationship insights with them, don’t seek their guidance same goes for her. It’s your own journey. The day any of you will start confiding peace by sharing what’s happening in your relationship to a 3rd person, the end will start from there.

  3. don’t take her for granted just because the chase is over.

  4. don’t not let her disrespect you at any cost, any moment ever. Fights will happen eventually, she’ll get angry and disrespect you and later on she’ll come and say sorry she didn’t mean it. Buddy she very well did. Anger don’t make you a demon it just heightens what you really think deep inside. You’ll let her disrespect you once and you don’t put an end to it she’ll do it again. Vice versa.

  5. there will be other boys who will be earning more than you, better looking than you, more witty, more intelligent than you who will be friends with your girlfriend. Don’t be INSECURE at any cost. She choose you above everyone else, remember that and maintain it. The moment you’ll start getting insecure your behaviour towards her will change, you’ll become bitter. She’ll not like and reciprocate in the same way and then negative spiral will happen.

  6. You got the girlfriend, box is tick. Now don’t go around window shopping hoping to attract even more beautiful or successful girl. Focus that energy on your career and yourself.

  7. Do not mix your friend circles, keep your friend circle and girlfriend separate. And don’t try to get into her friend circle. You’ll thank me later if things go wrong, I hope it doesn’t.

Read and re - read it untill it sinks in. Godspeed

Enchanter404
Enchanter404

Also do not expect any of the above things if you are doing the same for her

Don’t disrespect her Don’t let her be insecure

It’s not 50-50 It’s 100% of yours and 100% of hers

BoogieMan
BoogieMan

Firstly, pleasant wishes for you.
You are asking us to broach on a topic that is too vast and broad. You should narrow it down to the areas where you feel you might need suggestions or a piece of advice on. Also, do describe your girlfriend a bit so that we could identify potential red flags or grey areas and how to navigate around them.

Good luck either way.

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