FloatingPancake
FloatingPancake

Story of my life: Age 0 to Age 32

Was having morning chai and realized I should write this somewhere. Not sure if there’s anything to learn here. Just one guy’s story

Years 0 to 5: Small town child

Was born in Bhubaneshwar, father had a government job. Very average middle class life. Middle class values. Parents always wanted me to study hard so I did. Used to be most excited about playing cricket and football very day

Years 5 to 15: The studious class kid

We shifted to Jaipur - dad had a transferable job. Took time adjusting to a new school but eventually made some friends. Realised I do not have any music/sports/artistic talent, but I can work hard. So I started working hard on my studies and started being top 10% of my class every year. Maths came easy to me. I am not in touch with any of my friends from this period but they have all gone on to do good things as I see from their LinkedIn profiles

Years 15 to 22: IIT years



Worked super freakin hard - gave the JEE and made it to one of the top 7 IITs in the Mech department, soon realised I do not love Mech and there weren’t any jobs as well. Started learning to code and made a few projects. Did an internship at Microsoft and another at a startup from a college alum. Ended up realising becoming an engineer is not my cup of tea long term. Took a hard turn to working on non engineering skills and jobs. 

Most importantly made so many friends, had so much fun. These are still some of my best friends and we still meet each other and stay at each other’s houses. Picked up a deep obsession with E-Sports (Counter Strike mostly)

Years 22 to 24: First job

Joined one of the top 10 consulting companies at a good salary. Moved to Mumbai - started wearing suits and living a great life from hotel to hotel. The job was good, but not engaging enough. Decided I should quit. But was scared to do it for 8 months. Started studying for my CAT

Years 25 to 28: MBA and marriage

CAT went sweet. Joined a top MBA school - the most formative years of my life to be honest. Almost close to my last 2 years at college. Met my wife there to whom I got later married at 28. I still keep in touch with a few people from MBA but not as many as I do from college.

Years 28 to 32: Making it onto Tech

My campus placement happened as a Product Manager at famous tech company in Bangalore where I have been for the last 4 years now. Got a couple promotions. I love my work and its impact. I still sometimes get to play my Counter Strike.

As I look back on all of life, I guess the most important things I have learnt are to just stay happy and do something useful EVERY DAY. Be diligent, work hard and you’ll get where you want to. Do not stress over it. Just stay in the game. Don’t tire out.

Anyway. That’s it folks!

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GigglyHamster
GigglyHamster
TCS8mo

Chetan Bhagat, is this you?

PerkyMochi
PerkyMochi

😂

GoofyNugget
GoofyNugget

Chetan Bhagat is not 32 he is 72 because of his thought process

GigglyDumpling
GigglyDumpling

Career wise what was the point of doing an MBA? You entered tech again

BubblyPotato
BubblyPotato

Life had other plans for him. He had to meet his wife there, perhaps that's why! Like I'm talking in philosophical terms like in terms of the universe, destiny etc

TwirlyPretzel
TwirlyPretzel

Long term Growth and to beat the competition. Look at the education profile of top executives in bigger companies, they never stop acquiring degrees, diplomas and PhDs.

SquishyMochi
SquishyMochi

Me 28 and yet not married 🥺

DerpyHamster
DerpyHamster

Do MBA

SquishyMochi
SquishyMochi

😂 "Here's your degree and your spouse". Jokes aside, I don't wanna leave engineering, so it's not an option for me, ig

SquishyMochi
SquishyMochi

How can you spot an IITian on grapevine?

TwirlyPretzel
TwirlyPretzel

The same way you spot an IITan in real life.

SquishyMochi
SquishyMochi

The will fucking tell you bruh

GigglyWalrus
GigglyWalrus

Bro I respect you but pls stop giving this “WORK HARD” advice. It’s absolute cringe and cliche at the least

ZippyPenguin
ZippyPenguin

It's still the truth and one would need to do that. These genz calling working hard as cliche is the worst thing I could read on internet.

GigglyWalrus
GigglyWalrus

I will share an interesting story my friend. Me and a girl from my village studied together. She quits after class 10. I studied till graduation. She went on to become a make up artist in Bangalore and now sells courses back in village. Whereas a corporate majdoor like me and you - working after graduation, still stuck in the same job. How is this fucking world justified ? What hard work ? Is it even a thing in today’s world ? Girls becoming famous by flaunting their bodies on Instagram and attracting brand Collaborations. I mean I used to be a hard work fanboy but I don’t even have the motivation to work after seeing all these

PrancingPotato
PrancingPotato

Good that life turned out beautiful for you. I am sure you worked hard for it.

JumpyBoba
JumpyBoba

How to meet your soulmate: shaadi.com❌ Bumble/Hinge❌ MBA💯

FuzzyBoba
FuzzyBoba

Marriage market nowadays is based out of monetary compatibility, nothing else matters.

JumpyBoba
JumpyBoba

how much should a 24 yo GEM make per year to get a woman who makes as much as him in a metro city like Mumbai as per u?

SqueakyKoala
SqueakyKoala

Firstly congrats man! But doesn’t it feel monotonous at times? Dont you get fomo/envious of peers/batchmates making it large with startups/alternate money making routes, how do you deal with this feeling?

SleepyBanana
SleepyBanana

You have great writing skills

ZestyBoba
ZestyBoba

I am happy how your life turned out well . I am more glad that you reflected on very well ,be grateful for the opportunities and hardwork . You will go a long way my friend . Best of luck

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