GroovyMuffin
GroovyMuffin

What do women want?

Married people or people who’ve been in long term relationships, tell me what qualities should one look for in their prospective partner? How’d you know she’s the one? What qualities should one look out for and stay away from?

PS- I’m in a relationship, asking for research purposes.

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QuirkyCupcake
QuirkyCupcake

People can ruin any happiest moment and make it the worst day of your life. There are people who are born to cry and ruin moments literally for no reason,don't know why and how ,, but they exist.Stay away from them.

For me, the most important quality is one who knows how to be happy and content.

GroovyMuffin
GroovyMuffin

Thanks for this. Are you married?

SwirlyPretzel
SwirlyPretzel

Answer is it depends. You have to find a partner that works for you and is aligned with your values and priorities in life.

For example are women who are independent, driven and ambitious who seek husbands that are supportive and can be equal partners.

If you are looking for generic advice, some of the following are things to keep in mind:

  1. Having a similar outlook to life decisions like staying in India vs not, having kids or not, financial aspiration etc.
  2. Someone who’s equally invested in the relationship
  3. Similar values / spectrum on material possessions - e.g. my partner and I both don’t care for brands and like a simpler life
  4. Having at least 1-2 common interests that you can spend time together on - e.g. traveling, sports
  5. Both having a life / identity outside of the relationship
  6. Both playing the long term game
  7. Not cheating
  8. Making time for each other
  9. Enjoying each others company as friends
SillyMarshmallow
SillyMarshmallow

Unko khud ni pata what they want🤦🏻‍♀️

PrancingPotato
PrancingPotato

Pata chale tho bata dena…

based

PerkyDumpling
PerkyDumpling

Always wanted someone who liked same activities as mine.
Was calm composed helpful
Found the person

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

they want a better looking guy, so hope you are ready for that day

GroovyMuffin
GroovyMuffin

I’m quite good looking. Don’t worry.

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