What do you think about people like these? 💀
Sometimes I think we all have that friend who doesn't see what others see in them. They'll be there saying "oh, I'm just average" while everyone else is like "??? are we looking at the same person??"
Had a moment like this recently. My friend was stressing about a presentation, saying she wasn't "professional enough," meanwhile she's literally the most put-together person I know. Funny how we can be our own worst critics.
Maybe that's just part of being human - we're so used to seeing ourselves in the mirror every day that we become blind to what others notice instantly. Our flaws become magnified while our best features fade into background noise.
But here's a thought: if you ever catch yourself saying "I'm not even that..." - pause. Because chances are, you're probably way more than you give yourself credit for. Sometimes the most attractive thing isn't even about looks - it's about being genuinely yourself and not even realizing the impact you have on others.
What's your experience with this? Ever had a moment where you realized your self-perception was way off from how others saw you?