This morning, saw a father holding his two kids, wearing their bags, taking to school by walk.
My father isn't a hug person, maybe he doesn't know hugs as a thing. Last time I hugged him was in first year of graduation, I was leaving for college and very tearful. But he got weirded out, not his cup of tea really.
So hugs for mumma and pairi pauna for papa 🙏
Aise questions puch ke overshare karva lo bas 😪
I live in India, so... never.
27th November, 2023
I was coming back to Bangalore from my hometown and I hugged him before leaving the house (not sure why). My dad was never a hug sort of a person but after I had hugged him the way he smiled at me was so wholesome and precious. That made me realize that our fathers (in middle class families) brought us up without any complaints and with a lot of sacrifices. Those things can make the emotions/smile go away. So it's impertinent for us to hug them from time to time and let them know that they are not alone anymore, now it's time for us to take care of them. They can take some rest for a bit.
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I come from TN. In my entire family tree, I have rarely seen anyone hugging, not even among women or men(same gender). I have so many cousins, but never hugged anyone even if I wanted to.
It's a FOMO for me when I see even our generation doing it and I feel that since I am conditioned to not hug, I shouldn't.
It's so fearful, that I only hug when the person in front of me initiates it as I tried hugging once someone and it backfired
In my household it was certainly not the case, however I do agree that he could have contributed more in the household chores.
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