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Will this add any value to my life?

I am 22 , in final year of my engineering, never been a regular/occasional drunker(tasted one sip of Bacardi bczz my friends were forcing me on my birthday that's it) , never smoked despite of having chain smoker friends, never tasted tea , i occasionally drink coffee like once or twice in every 6 months . Although I daily consume a glass of milk as a habit . When I look at my friends who are smoking Marlboro like having water , drinking and even to many others who are doing same stuff , i think even they are having their lives full of these and i m not , i think it's still not an achievement , bczz at some point of time, those people will als do great in their lives, but what did I achieve till now even after staying away from all these ?

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SebastianFettel

Stealth

5 months ago

You're losing out on nothing. Your Marlboro friends are gonna sit with you at 30s or 40s and regret about how they've been treating their bodies. And boss, thats noway the definition of "living life".
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IamBiztech

Student

5 months ago

Agreed
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StanleyHudson

Stealth

5 months ago

Your friends better start collecting money for chemotherapy coz that shit is gonna be super expensive in future
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Navigator10

Infosys

5 months ago

No need bro, remain Sober as you are till now.You will thank yourself later.Instead save the money and invest in some productive things like gym, healthy diet etc.
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IamBiztech

Student

5 months ago

Yup , doing so
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IamBiztech

Student

5 months ago

Although I will not do these things even later but just wanted to know the perspective of my fellow GRAPEVINERS about this - if you are at either side of the grass
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PeskyBaker43

Apple

5 months ago

Good health , self control and no addiciton insted of loser who cant control themselves and addicted to those things
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ElonMast

Amazon

5 months ago

Why you never smoked at first place?
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IamBiztech

Student

5 months ago

Didn't want to do it , don't have any specific reasons like there was enough freedom but I myself don't KNOW Why I didn't
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CharSoBees

Tekion

5 months ago

Don't touch any of these. You are saving yourself from a lot of future health issues. For Tea, it is love 💗
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Elon_Musk

X.com

5 months ago

The only thing you are missing out on is a higher probability of cancer and an early death.
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IamBiztech

Student

5 months ago

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