Yea it's a tough game. I keep myself busy. Coz I am too scared to approach girl's. And they never initiate anything anyways. They have some or the other guy hitting on them, that keeps them busy. So I continue feeling lonely and go with my day.

Senior Engineer

Don't want to get into relationship, but feel vacuum otherwise    No midwayy???   What to go guys   25 M

Don't want to get into relationship, but feel vacuum otherwise 


No midwayy???


What to go guys 

25 M

Dilemma

Analyst

Dilemma- Grapevine

Welcome to Office Gossip's Private Community

I am just out of college, and while being in college I didn't feel it much but now I am in my 4th year and doing an internship. So the thing is here I see my peers along with the work also doing numerous things in life such as , clubbing, drinking alcohol, getting into relationships etc . And I sometimes feel like I am behind /leftout . I am not that much bothered about drinking alcohol but I really feel missing out of having a relationship. I am a 22 year old male never had a girlfriend but here almost all my peers have one . Sometimes I feel I need a gf and sometimes don't. So what to do ? is it late at 22 ( will be 23 in feb 2024 ) to be single and virgin ?

Confused about life

Welcome to Indian Startups's Private Community

I am in a dilemma friends.I want to marry but there is no serious contender

Human Resources

Dating?

Software Engineer

Searching for my lobster since fckin 5yrs and no results!

-Tried through contacts, turned down
- Shaadi/Jeevansathi : No one is serious and the more options I get the more end up confused. Likewise for the other side.

Although in online I get plethora of options,I end up wasting time and money.

95% of the matches are doing window shopping.

This is way way harder then getting into FAANG.

Some stats of me:

Height:6'2
Age:33
Diet: Vegetarian/Teetotaler

Btw feel free to reach out to me here also  😂

Betterhalf search

Technical Lead

Don't have any girlfriend but I feel the need to have someone to speak with say about the day but there is fear of heartbreak and risk of loss of interest quickly, but again night comes but again I remember that talking can lead to attachment and attachment is not good what to do guysssssss?



Whom to speak with??

Loneliness or solitude?

Anybody here who's in their late 20's and family is pressuring them to get married but you're not mentally ready for the responsibility because maybe first you want to achieve something or be in a better place mentally or financially.

For Indian families marriage is just a checkpoint on their long list of responsibilities like science in school, btech in college, gov vs pvt job and stuff. 

I guess marriage is much more than just a wedding. If you're not mentally ready to have a partner reasons could be multiple like maybe you want to achieve something before tying knot or maybe you want to be at a better place mentally or monetary.

Honestly i dont know how to frame this question 
I just need to know the perspectives of married as well unmarried people or maybe any advice. 

I'm 27 btw 🫂

Thoughts on marriage

I was in a relationship with a guy, who never took me on a date, never gave any flowers or any gifts. Mostly message me and late replies. Has reason for everything. Broke up once but got together again because we were in the same college. Broke up again after college and again coincidentally landed where I live now. In this big metro city he is literally 15mins away from where I live. Again we started to talk, it is same thing now, delay in replies to messages and don't pick up calls. And asked to meet. 
How does this type of guy exist ??

Boys answer this...!!!

Associate Engineer

[self introspection] Why are you single ?

Senior Software Engineer

Heyaaa i have a random doubt if u r in relationship and u r traumized and dealing a lot of hell and u r close to suicide and u r in long distance but u saw that ur boyfriend consoling you but at the same time he is doing online shopping and roaming with his friend? Will you continue with that guy?

Relationship hurdle

Finance Operations

In pre final year
Sab kuch bacha hai revise/naya padhne ko
System design
CS fundamentals
DSA brush up
CP level up
Projects revise and machine coding round preperation


Par still I feel need of a girl, a relationship
Someone who I can share everything with
Why I am getting this feeling?
Itna gir gya hun mai
Been  years and haven't talked to a girl
I feel lonely, I feel anxious, I want to shout
I want to cry
Gurudwara jakar jab sab chale gaye the
Babaji k samne bahut roya tha
Idk kis phase c gujar rha hun mai
Ghar par mere baat bahut Kam hoti hai

...
In life till now
Was Never in a relationship 
Approached 2 and got rejected based on religion (I am Sikh)

Mai bus shaanti c padhna chata hoon
I look ugly and I am short(5 11) and brown skinned
Aap log to working hai
Mere dimaag ko pta hai ye sab cheezen bakwas hai , ladki relationship wagera
Par man nhi Manta

Kisko call karun
Kiske sath baaten share karun

Pls jo is same talkeef c gujar rahe hai help Karen
🙏🙏🙏🙏

Meditation
Gym
Sab try kar rha hoon
...
But the void isn't filled

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