Being self-aware, I understand how privileged I am. In spite of whatever is happening in the startup ecosystem, most of us are extremely privileged.
WFH when it rains or when you are not in the mood to come to the office.
Salary comes on time
Have AC homes and offices
Delivery apps like Zomato, Amazon, Big Basket to get so much work done.
I feel extreme levels of guilt when I see blue collar folks slog themselves throughout a day to get meagre pays. Sure, their work is not intellectually challenging but extremely physically challenging. The kind of physical activity that they have to do irrespective of what weather it is just pains my heart.
I know that this divide has been there for centuries and will remain in the future too. I try to help them wherever I can. This is a problem that for sure cannot solve for everyone ever.
Want to understand how I can overcome this guilt that I have?
Felt the same thing few days back. Not sure how to overcome guilt but really puts everything in perspective.
Our house help was paid today, and I can't forget the sheer joy in her eyes with that pay. And it was a measly amount when compared to my lifestyle.
Pains my heart. How to overcome this feeling?:(
Bro , i feel the same as you I just try to be empathetic to blue collar workers but i hate when my colleagues or friends treat them like shit , just because it's their job that doesn't mean you can take them for granted
I completely get the feeling. Over the years, I have realised that it all comes down to respecting all types of work and realising that the joy they feel on getting paid is similar to the one we get when our salary gets credited. Additionally, I think what we can do instead of feeling pity for them is to acknowledge the fact that some(most actually) blue collor jobs require more physical effort and we should be considerate with folks in this profession. For ex: if your apartment doesn't have a lift, it's not necessary to always call the delivery guy to climb 3 floors, because for you, it might be just once that you climb up and down, but for them, they have to do it the whole day.
Yeah. If we look around, blue collars are everywhere. Some I have zero sympathies such as Auto Drivers and Cab drivers. But for the rest, I feel sad.
House helps, drivers, security guards, delivery persons with Amazon, Swiggy etc.
How do you overcome this guilt?
Not all blue collar folks struggle.. in cities and big towns most of them earn as much as a entry level software engineer.. and hardly any of them pay taxes (legally).. saying all blue collar folks suffer is similar to saying all farmers are struggling...
I agree partially. Some blue collar folks such as repair guys, auto drivers etc do make decent money. However, most don't. Delivery folks, house helps, guards, migrant labourer workers etc.
If we think about how most folks in our country make a living, most of us on a platform like this are definitely privileged. The only thing we can do is be aware of our privilege, make the best of the opportunities we have and help more people around us rise up with the tide.
I just look at the other side where I make pennies compared to billionaires.
In the end it's just a who can hoard the most wealth dick measuring contest.
I wish it was this easy for me.
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