How to improve my looks

0. Try to have a call/video call before the first date. Always take their phone number/insta id before agreeing to meet, plenty of ghosters and shady folks these days. 1. Always try to meet outside for the first date. Don't go for drives. Those kinda dates almost never end up going well in the long run. Ask to meet halfway, don't go out of your way just to meet someone. 2. Don't meet someone with the expectation to start dating or getting married right away. Get to know them as friends first. Everything else later. 3. Date for 2-3 months at least before committing to be exclusive, don't rush into things and keep your options open. 4. Do not go for dates when you're feeling down or depressed. Meeting a stranger most likely won't help, it'll only distract temporarily. 5. Draw up a list of things you want and don't want in a partner. Should have at least 5-6 points on both sides. Pointless to date without knowing that much, but the list will also change with time. 6. Keep an open mind, try to be empathetic, and have fun. Don't compromise just to please the other. Learn to take a stand and draw boundaries from the start. 7. Use protection always, no matter what. And also have some self defense prepared just in case (for all genders). Having met hundreds of people through dating apps in the last decade, these are a few rules I formed for myself over time. Hope they help :)

Hello, fellow men reading this. I have tried my best to include all my learning and those of my friends. I’ve written this as informally as possible. Let’s get right into it. Functionality matters as much as features; your personality will matter as much as your looks. Your looks or pictures on the app will act as a hook, something that will stop girls from swiping left on the spot. Looks - Try going to the gym after work or college, and aim for a lean body. This will bring about the most significant change in you over time and will also encourage a good diet and discipline. Everyone likes a fit and athletic person. - Experiment as much as possible with your appearance. Look up different hairstyles according to your face shape and A/B test with your barber. - Consider getting a frame of specs suited to your face shape. For example, a square frame can really bring out your jawline compared to an oval frame. - Wash your face twice a day, use sunscreen, and drink a lot of water. Your face is how everyone judges you, and if you are glowing and smiling, people will be more positive towards you. - Maintain proper personal hygiene. Pictures - Please don’t fall into the trap of generic guitar/dog pictures. You want your pictures to represent who you are as a person. If you are into scuba diving, include a picture of it. If you like books, get a picture from a bookstore. - Experiment with different poses and locations. Iterate and iterate to see what works. - Don’t forget to smile. The last thing you want is for girls to assume you are too serious. - Your pictures need to be a mirror of you. For example, I smile and laugh 24/7, so all my images are goofy.

I turned 25 a few months back. I am balding from my college days. During the lockdown, it was somehow accelerated and lost most of the hair line. Now i look like a person with male pattern baldness who has lost his almost all hair. Baldness is hereditary in my family. My head almost looks like my fathers head, who is also bald. I always knew that I would go bald someday but never imagined that it would be at 25. Though i don't hide it by anything. I go in public openly and try to be as confident as much as possible, but sometimes I feel very sad as people generally stare and don't usually talk normally. Some relatives even tell it on my face that who is going to marry you. This generally brings down my confidence. Career wise, i am doing pretty good. Earning good money. Some people say go for hair transplant, but to be very honest, I don't feel it is worth spending money on the hair, which at the end going to vanish only due to hereditary reasons. I have almost accepted the way I look now, but become very anxious when I think about getting married. I'm not sure if somebody is going to accept me the way I look. What would be your advice for me? How should I deal with it so that it does bother me again and again.

A final year student I made a lot of mistakes in my life Never ever worked hard to my fullest potential Didn't studied well even though I had potential during JEE Keep getting attracted to girls(very few times), even though I am training myself not to. Becoming emotionally down often Feeling guilty of not being able to have someone to talk to. What I simply want is to work to my fullest potential without getting attracted to the other gender so that there are no distractions and becoming mentally strong to the point that I don't need anyone else continuously present in my life for me. There has to be a way Almost everyone around me are so strong My gut believes I don't have that much time left I just want to fix everything for my parents and my brother And leaving with a pride and honor of a MAN.

Here’s some context. I have been hitting the gym on and off for like a year now. My body weight is 65kgs. I can bench press 60 kgs, can deadlift 120kgs. I can jog 5kms in roughly 30 mins. I am 21 years old. Though I know these are decent numbers from a health perspective, I feel inferior when looking at people lift significantly more on social media. I feel like my body is not at all in a good shape. I see people posting insane transformations in 3 or 6 months, and here I am stagnant with my progress inspite of hitting the gym for a year now. Do anyone of you guys feel the same way? On top of this, when I share my progress with friends who don’t know much about fitness, they ain’t impressed at all. They see influencers lifting insane numbers and consider that too be the norm. FYI I don’t take any supplements, hence hitting my protein target has been pretty much not possible most days.

Have you seen the before and after people got money, celebrities and others too. Money does get you a lot. better skin, groomed, polished look But how? Facials, procedures aren’t the trick (because tried all) What is it?