advice for dating life
Actually I never dated , never had a girlfriend. In school I liked a girl but she rejected me . In college, I found that girls in my class are not compatible ( I mean they have other interests in their life , I have other interests) . And now I will be graduating from college, have a job of 8.55 lpa but never had a girlfriend. I thought I can date in the office but reality hit me that I can't date in my office. Going forward ( after a year ) I am aiming for a remote job . Then I will go back to my village ( I have reasons for that ) . But I fear that I can't get gf there because my village is conservative. Let me tell you that I am a shy guy and I don't believe in this cliche " go out and talk to women" because I can't start talking rubbish just for shake of talking. So please advise what to do ?
Talking product sense with Ridhi
9 min AI interview5 questions
It is not very clear what your aim is? Do you want to date for the sake of it? Are you looking to settle and get married?
what is exactly your idea for dating?
Ya , settle and get married
main thing is I wanted to have that typical dating life where u date in school college, have lot of sex and either marry or breakup in future
Bro, you won't get a girl if you're shy. Don't expect them to make the first move. If your intention is just to have sex, seeing a prostitute is the easiest option for you. Just keep in mind, these are not big matters. No one really cares if you are a virgin or not.
why can't they like shy guys @melancholicOnion
There are chances but still it's very rare.
Most of them prefer guys who are funny and caring.
Shy people are often tagged as the boring type.
Build yourself sab moh maya hai bs 😊
bhai moh maya nahin hai . biwi is someone that gives you confidence in life , gives u purpose . gives u love
Logo ko wife and marriage matrial ladkiya chahiye bhi to nahi ...very rare men took interest in women with wify character...I personally have seen because I'm very old school thinker in such ways but couldn't find any man for me.
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lol. You aren't alone. Most guys face this. They have 0 female friends. Make contact with your office colleagues and one day they'd probably introduce their friends if you're a decent guy.
If you have the idea that you want an ideal women( the reason you never made a female friend ) you will never get it. You have to interact with other women because imo women prefer guys who aren't shy. You have to make efforts and fix your dressing sense, hygiene etc. This is enough imo.
bro I am hygiene and dressing sense is nomal and I personally maintain a low key profile . I hate showing off
@switxh
Check out Prakhar Gupta's channel and YT and learn how to talk to and view girls as normal human beings. there's no other way you're getting sex without taking an interest in their interests (unless you pay for it or something)
Kaam karo, paise kamao. Sax-sux ke chakkar mein career na dubao. Upskill and reset. You'll be found by someone who likes you for you.
