FluffyJellybean
FluffyJellybean
Student

advice for dating life

Actually I never dated , never had a girlfriend. In school I liked a girl but she rejected me . In college, I found that girls in my class are not compatible ( I mean they have other interests in their life , I have other interests) . And now I will be graduating from college, have a job of 8.55 lpa but never had a girlfriend. I thought I can date in the office but reality hit me that I can't date in my office. Going forward ( after a year ) I am aiming for a remote job . Then I will go back to my village ( I have reasons for that ) . But I fear that I can't get gf there because my village is conservative. Let me tell you that I am a shy guy and I don't believe in this cliche " go out and talk to women" because I can't start talking rubbish just for shake of talking. So please advise what to do ?

6mo ago
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PrancingCupcake
PrancingCupcake

It is not very clear what your aim is? Do you want to date for the sake of it? Are you looking to settle and get married?
what is exactly your idea for dating?

FluffyJellybean
FluffyJellybean
Student6mo

Ya , settle and get married

FluffyJellybean
FluffyJellybean
Student6mo

main thing is I wanted to have that typical dating life where u date in school college, have lot of sex and either marry or breakup in future

BubblyNoodle
BubblyNoodle
TCS6mo

Bro, you won't get a girl if you're shy. Don't expect them to make the first move. If your intention is just to have sex, seeing a prostitute is the easiest option for you. Just keep in mind, these are not big matters. No one really cares if you are a virgin or not.

FluffyJellybean
FluffyJellybean
Student6mo

why can't they like shy guys @melancholicOnion

BubblyNoodle
BubblyNoodle
TCS6mo

There are chances but still it's very rare.
Most of them prefer guys who are funny and caring. Shy people are often tagged as the boring type.

DerpyQuokka
DerpyQuokka

Build yourself sab moh maya hai bs 😊

FluffyJellybean
FluffyJellybean
Student6mo

bhai moh maya nahin hai . biwi is someone that gives you confidence in life , gives u purpose . gives u love

DerpyQuokka
DerpyQuokka

Logo ko wife and marriage matrial ladkiya chahiye bhi to nahi ...very rare men took interest in women with wify character...I personally have seen because I'm very old school thinker in such ways but couldn't find any man for me.

BubblyNugget
BubblyNugget

Use apps tinder bumble. Go with frnds with benefits

FluffyJellybean
FluffyJellybean
Student6mo

kat gaya bhai mera , transgender ne right swipe kiya hai . udhar bahut bura haal hai . I have tried dating apps

BubblyNugget
BubblyNugget

Bhai filter laga na Women bas

Aaj ki raat kese Kategi Ye btao

FluffyJellybean
FluffyJellybean
Student6mo

jaise roz kat ti hai , insta scroll karte karte so jayenge . isi tanhai mein jindegi doob jayegi @OtherArmament

FluffyJellybean
FluffyJellybean
Student6mo

roz sochta hoon ki mere zindagi mein kuch achha hogi v ki nahin @OtherArmament

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