WobblyMarshmallow
WobblyMarshmallow

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My brief time in Bangalore a couple of years ago was sweet.

The auto drivers were chill (Yes, only talking about rapido/uber ones). Chalte firte toh full nanga naach even then. Stopped an auto for a 2km distance and bhai ne ₹300 ki quotation di.

The fruit sellers, store owners were all cool. Jisko jo bhasha aati thi usme baat karke kaam chalta tha. Met Tamil and Malyali auto drivers as well who directly or indirectly communicated ki sab theek thaak hi hai yaha. Sorted society.

Jump to 2024, badmashi mode on for locals, multiple cases of girls being harassed, house owners annoying the fuck out of tenants and the already questionable commute system is worsened with drivers just not willing to take non-local residents.

My question: have any of you started on some exit plan where either you switch cities with an internal transfer or switching companies? (I understand, for many, it would be a luxury to even consider the move since responsibilities can make you risk averse. Its fine, in your own time)

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GigglyNugget
GigglyNugget

It is the new government which is funding pro-Kannadiga outfits and have given them an immunity which has made them more brazen. It is in line with Rahul Gandhi's vision of: India as a union of states.

SleepyTaco
SleepyTaco

I feel the same too. It aligns with congress party evergreen motto of divide and rule. Even if they can rule just the ashes

SqueakyNarwhal
SqueakyNarwhal

Totally agree, dividing further along. Earlier it was religion, then caste , now language. Pathetic state of affairs

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

Long time ago, I read this article about immigration to the US. Written by, of course a white man who witnessed the first batch of Indian arriving in US. He was awed on the work ethic and knowledge of the Indians. They all wondered how come India is lagging behind when these kind of people live in India. Then came the next batches of relatives, friends, the paan thookiyas, and traders. Then they understood why India was lagging behind.

SnoozyBurrito
SnoozyBurrito

Man, that "pan thookiyas" reference is god level 😭 I burst out laughing

GigglyNugget
GigglyNugget

Indian immigration into the US have ALWAYS been highly skilled. The mass immigration of blue collar or adjacent workers you allude to never happened.

You for sure are smoking some potent stuff. But going by the validation this trollish comment has received, you are by no means the only one smoking it. I don't know if that is any saving grace though.

JazzyCoconut
JazzyCoconut

Please leave if you are not even trying 1% to learn their language or culture. They don’t deserve your hard work in their state.

There will always be people who will respect them and they will take your job.

All the best on your new job search in other polluted city 🥹

JazzyCoconut
JazzyCoconut

I don’t support harassment at any situation and in any place.

JazzyCoconut
JazzyCoconut

I’m first to condemn the situation but I try finding a solution than ditching a place that fed us for so many years.

SparklyNarwhal
SparklyNarwhal

I'm a local, yet I still feel like an outsider in most of the companies I've worked for because my colleagues predominantly speak Hindi, and we're often forced to learn the language. This is something we don't like and are not comfortable with.

Let's compare these two scenarios:

  1. Forcing a local to learn a foreign language (foreign because my mother tongue is Kannada).

  2. Forcing an outsider to learn a regional language after they have chosen to work, earn, live, and eventually settle here.

Just as I’ve learned enough Hindi to manage at work, why can’t people from other cities or states learn a bit of Kannada? No one is expecting outsiders to write a book or speak Kannada fluently.

What's happening in Bangalore is a sign of the majority turning into a minority, and local people will definitely strive to preserve their culture and place, regardless of the circumstances.

Sooner or later, even the people of Hyderabad might fight to retain their language, culture, and identity if they find themselves becoming a minority in their own city.

The benefit of learning Kannada while staying in Bangalore is that you can communicate with local people in a language they understand.

SillyCupcake
SillyCupcake

You learnt hindi, right? Not marwadi or gujrati or marathi or odia? So why you compare Hindi with regional languages like Kannada/Tamil etc.?

WobblyMarshmallow
WobblyMarshmallow

@DecimalAge fair point, Decimal. Try one thing, talk in the 'colonial' tongue. Start with English, and talk freely. You will notice yourself wanting to pick up more Hindi and Hindi speakers wanting to speak in Kannad.

Teach a colleague some basics and ask him to order something in his broken Kannad. It is endearing as fuck and always flatters the natives. EFFORT! You lead, your colleagues will follow.

If not, come back and abuse me in Kannad :P

JumpyLlama
JumpyLlama
EY5mo

Thank god, I changed my office location from Bangalore to Gurugram 3 years back. That time i did to avoid searching new accommodation in unknowm city since I was already comfortable in my place.

JazzyCoconut
JazzyCoconut

I’m happy that all the useless junk leaving a beautiful non-polluted city. Hats off for starting this trend. Take others with you. 🫡

GroovyBagel
GroovyBagel
SAP5mo

It's really strange that people working in Google are talking like this.

BubblyPotato
BubblyPotato

Apart from the issues you raised, unrealistic real estate and high prices for everything almost, water situation long term etc further solidified my belief that i needed to look for another place for long term and raising family. Took almost 1 year of planning and have moved out of Bangalore to tier 3 town in north india My monthly costs have come down to 1/3rd of Bangalore and yet everything i recieve ( food, veggies, people services like electrician plumber etc ) is way top notch compared to there. Roads are better, less traffic And way more helpful friendly people. I loved Bangalore for what it gave me and this is no way degrading that city, its just i realised it wasn't working for me and i moved out. Hope this answers

TwirlyDumpling
TwirlyDumpling

Nicely written man. Hope you are doing well.

FloatingHamster
FloatingHamster
Student5mo

Please share the tier 3 name , will switch soon

DerpyMuffin
DerpyMuffin

Entire IT is revolving around Bangalore,Hyderabad and Pune. State governments in North India are good for nothing. They are not trying to bring IT to their states. I feel sad when people suffer after relocating to a city faraway from their hometowns.

I’m Telugu and Hyderabadi and I never tried, trying or will try to learn Kannada.

I speak Hindi that’s my choice.No one imposed Hindi on me.

WobblyQuokka
WobblyQuokka
IBM5mo

Noida and Gurgaon are good in IT too. But I do agree , more such cities are needed. Kolkata failed badly.
Bhuvneshwar, Indore are on the rise. We need more smaller cities as this will also help in reasonable property prices ,less traffic and less ghost cities.

PrancingNugget
PrancingNugget

I used to live in Bangalore till COVID started and came back after a 3 year hiatus.

I always had this feeling driving on ORR that this will be a global city soon, it was so attractive with its cosmopolitan appeal. The people were nice and they still are.

Fast forward to my 2nd stint and everything has changed, it appears more and more like Chennai. Extremely unwelcoming, giving me just another city vibe.

This is my personal understanding that I interacted with bangaloreans in my first visit and kannadigas from outside Bangalore in my 2nd visit, because there is no way you would hear the news about Bangalore for all wrong reason because of Bangaloreans.

PS: I've lived in Chennai for 1.5 yrs would never want to go there again.

PrancingNugget
PrancingNugget

I'm a citizen of India.

I'll live where the F I want in India.

No one has the right to tell me to learn this and that.

I respect your culture by not creating obstacles for you and I expect the same from you.

SparklyPancake
SparklyPancake

@AcidicMop What was it like in chennai?

SparklyNugget
SparklyNugget

I like the people in Bangalore, but I don’t see any point in learning Kannada. What are the benefits for an outsider to learn Kannada?

MagicalWaffle
MagicalWaffle

Just don't ask localite to speak in your language then you are sorted.

JumpyWaffle
JumpyWaffle

This post is very well written. Very controversial tho

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