Seek validation from other women

Validation of which thing?

Married men looking for validation from other women: 1. Are other women finding me attractive 2. Are other women looking at me 3. Are other women interested in me Is it common amongst married men to think like this?

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No harm in seeking validation . But what’s the end goal of this validation ? What do you really want to do ?

Validation ki mera husband badhiya hai ki nahi?

Why don't you seek therapy? You'll find clarity in your thoughts. It will help prevent any fuck up if you're thinking out of ordinary. None of us are qualified here to give you relationship / thinking advice.

It's ok

Dekh bro, guys are wired to seek out partners, marriage as a concept is new to humans. Plus other women find married/committed guys more attractive because they're outside reach and already selected by a woman. This is why extra marital affairs happen and are more common than you'd think. Some couples give each other passes or have contracts with each other to manage this in a way that works for both. Very few people live out their lives completely monogamous without ever cheating on someone. It takes effort to find the right partner and build a relationship that's fulfilling for both. If you try to deny your biology you're going to have a hard time trying to moralise it all. I struggled with the same for a while. It's upto you to decide how you want to conduct your marriage/ relationship, there are mostly no right or wrong answers that apply to everyone.