SquishyKoala
SquishyKoala

Come out of relationship

I’m 24M, software engineer. I recently came into the relationship with my old college friend. She is a really good person, but I’m not attracted to her.

And yes, I came into the relationship to cope from loneliness and don’t want to die alone. Right now, we’re in different cities, so we didn’t have any physical relationship yet. But I have to meet her soon during my home visit. How should I convince her just to stay friends?

She is a very emotional person & she already started planning to meet my mother🥲.

3mo ago
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QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel

The sooner you clear this is better for all.

Don't tell this over text, tell this over video call or at least call.

WobblyHamster
WobblyHamster

If you tell her that you got into the relationship because you were feeling lonely, she is going to feel really bad and might feel cheated. Better to give some genuine reasons like different interests, compatibility reasons, etc. Also, don't do this again with anyone. All the best!

ZestyTaco
ZestyTaco

bada sahi bole bhai

FluffyDumpling
FluffyDumpling

She deserves peace.

QuirkyCupcake
QuirkyCupcake

Tell her she might not appreciate now, but surely will later

SquishyQuokka
SquishyQuokka

Wrong reason to get into one. You should leave soon.

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You felt something,took a shot, didn't worked out, no worries, move on, someone else will come into your life.