Dating At Workplace
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SoftwareDaddy
Stealth
a year ago
Satay vachan sataya vachan.
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The easiest and most polite way for you will be to switch to a higher package and then ask her out... Sure as hell in this you won't come out as creep...
What's money got to do with it? Does more money make it less creepy? Weird perception tbh
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MutedFlow57
Stealth
a year ago
You don't.
Same project is tricky, if she says no, then it will be a forever awkward situation for you.
shinigami
Stealth
a year ago
I was in same boat once. We both switched companies, went couple of times to mall and then I ask her out, she asked for sometime and then rejected. I respected the decision and moved on.
Don't do it in same company.
AstroBubbles
Stealth
a year ago
Switch company and then tell her.
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Go for a casual coffee outing and break this to her gradually after veering the conversation towards relationships.
Go ahead and ask. Don't worry about it. Worst is that it will be awkward, you might have to switch jobs. And she might call you a creep.
So go ahead. Also please post the results here for research purposes lol.
PrizeFighter
Stealth
a year ago
If it goes well, then no problem. If things don't go well, you people still have to see each other everyday at the office.
SleepyHeadF
Stealth
a year ago
#metoo on your way
As someone who has dated a colleague and ended up marrying her, I think I am qualified enough to answer this. Just go ahead ask her out. I’m hoping you have evaluated it enough to gather that she also has some interest. Just ask her out for a coffee/ few drinks and take it from there.
Bhai.
Unless you are definite that the answer is yes, do not ask her out..
See if you can have a casual catch up over the weekend for a coffee or something. Then build on it
If you aren't sure, then you clearly aren't there yet. Spend some more time. You'll know it eventually!
Unless she is your junior or ranks lower in hierarchy, casually ask her out. If she says no, don’t push and act as if nothing happened. If you are the reporting manager then it’s strict no go.
HalfBloodPrince
Student
a year ago
A big no, this is coming from experience. You'll eventually mess things up and then will regret this decision to ask her out till the end of your time in the company.
diablo99
Stealth
a year ago
Make a ppt about it
