FloatingQuokka
FloatingQuokka

Dating policy

What's the dating policy at your company? Our stupid HR said that dating is not allowed..and you can be terminated if you date your colleague? I'm going out with this chick in design.while it's not official but we know where it's heading. Should I disclose to HR?

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ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

Don't. These rules are bent only if you are in senior management. And what's up with 'chick' the undertone is very disrespectful

GigglyNarwhal
GigglyNarwhal

You assuming the species of the thing my stud boy is dating? What if it's an actual chick🐓🤨? /s

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

oh no my bad for judging too fast 😂

QuirkyNoodle
QuirkyNoodle

Don’t disclose it to the HR. At the same time, don’t disclose it to any of your other colleagues as well. And prepare yourself to pretend that you don’t know each other in the workplace. Office gossip can be rampant, and always has a way of coming around to bite you.

And please don’t call a woman a ‘chick’.

FloatingQuokka
FloatingQuokka
TCS18mo

Ishq aur mushk can't be hidden for long

MagicalPenguin
MagicalPenguin

True. So stop hesitating and makeout in the boss cabin

ZoomyPotato
ZoomyPotato
Aurigo18mo

It's allowed, but HR has to be notified. If they are in the same team, then one of them is moved to some other team.

FloatingQuokka
FloatingQuokka
TCS18mo

Should I inform HR before or after making it official. What if she say I saw you just as a friend. You can't be sure with chicks

ZoomyPotato
ZoomyPotato
Aurigo18mo

Be sure first. If not, that means she's not serious and you should end it there. You will be at a huge disadvantage if things get complicated.

The policy at each company is different. Try to check it first, slip it in some conversation and find out from someone, although it's always good to be honest about these things right from the start.

GoofyDonut
GoofyDonut

Damn, printers getting action over at TCS. All they do at other orgs is jam!

QuirkyNoodle
QuirkyNoodle

Maybe OP jams too, but he/she/they/it got someone to repair that now.

FuzzyMarshmallow
FuzzyMarshmallow

Bro murgi design kaise banati hai?

FloatingQuokka
FloatingQuokka
TCS18mo

Design ka pata nahi but batein achi baanti hai

ZestyKoala
ZestyKoala

Doubt: what would be the difference in dating and friends in office premises?

FloatingQuokka
FloatingQuokka
TCS18mo

Ek ladka aur ladki kabhi dost nahi ho sakte .

SwirlyPretzel
SwirlyPretzel

Everytime OP says 'chick' I feel sorry for the girl he is dating.

ZoomyBurrito
ZoomyBurrito
Student18mo

Chick kya be murgi hai kya

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