It's true that during due dates, auditors have a very packed schedule. There are days when I've seen my seniors work for 24 hours straight. I have another senior who's arranged marriage broke off post roka because he could not give enough time to the girl in order to build that bond before marriage.
But having said this, if someone is truly interested in you, they'll find a some time, some reason to kick off work and make things work. Even in the craziest schedule, I've seen my seniors and colleagues make time to check and have a proper conversation with their better halves.
If they don't do that, sorry to say but, i don't think it worth investing your emotions and time in this.
But this is a third party perspective. You should take a decision based on your gut feelings and facts of the circumstance. It's better to have a conversation with the girl about your feelings and emotions before concluding anything.
Marriage is a big step, take it wisely.