Recently I went through a post on Reddit where a woman(Indian) had asked for opinions of how people of the sub(the sub is dominated by westerners) perceived Indians.
Apparently the common answer from women for Indian men was: they are unhygienic, stink a lot, super desperate and were the majority of the population in blind dating scenarios. So essentially non-datable.
The common answer from men for Indian Woman was: overly ambitious, obnoxious, highly opinionated to the extent any deviations from their thought process was not perceived well by them. Not non-datable but not preferred either.
Of course, the answers will be highly skewed considering a very limited audience but just the commonality in a lot of comments caught my attention.
People who have been abroad or have regularly interacted with a lot of foreigners, has this been the experience?
As an Indian man who has lived in the west and dated many western women, such online threads are bullshit. They are just full of trolls spouting extremist and racist stereotypes.
In the real world, most people are smarter than to believe these stupid stereotypes, and in western countries, a lot of western women do date and marry Indian men, and a lot of western men do date and marry Indian men, including many of my personal Indian friends of both genders who have married westerners.
Don't believe such dumb and racist online forums that are full of incels spouting dumb opinions, and who have probably never dated anyone in real life. ð
Cannot get the exact link to the post, but it was on r/AskMen, 2-4 weeks old post.
They are right I think ð
When I used to live back in New York in 2017, most people I met used to look towards Indians quite favorably. But not sure if this has changes since I returned.
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I find it curious at least that in my undergrad batch, out of all the people who went to abroad 80% of them were women. What factors would contribute to that?
Freedom
I'll start: Couldn't do long distance (Gurgaon-Noida) ðĪŠ
I just can't, day by day the things I experience in this place makes me hate this country more. On average, Indians are terrible people.
This family friend who has been in Canada for 10 year, got his PR Comes to meet us, comments on how mom has lost weight, advises me to see a doctor for back pain
Why are we Indians habited to give unsolicited advice or comment on someon...