I feel that when you open up to people about your traumas and insecurities, people are only going to use it against you in an arguement.
While you might argue that not everyone does that, and I would be the first one to agree to that. But you somehow stop trusting everyone, even your shadow , when your favorite people become your most bitter life lessons.
The one who feels emotions always ends up suffering more. In the hindsight, it feels as if being a bare minimum "good human" is a curse.
However,
I have been using grapevine to vent out and connect with strangers and so far I have only met supportive and empathetic human beings (most of them).
Despite being covered in the sheild of anonymity, most people have only been respectful and kind.
This proves that we, as humans , are only meant to love each other. Hatred is futile. Empathy is inherent while hatred is "cultivated".
I hope grapevine founders dont stumble across this post else theyll start charging premium fees when they realize how highly people speak of this platform lol