If you were my husband, & I say I don't want to work. How do you respond?

Women can reply too. This is hypothetical anyway

4mo ago5K views
CuriousMind13521
CuriousMind13521
Student4mo

My first statement would be acceptance. Accompanied by a what changed or why?

  1. Not enjoying work anymore? - If you say yes, find a new calling that excites you. (Regardless of pay scale)

The discussions will include changes in financial goals, lifestyle changes, travel plans, family plans.

Woman
Woman

Thank you for the comment! All previous comments 'assumed' the wife is lazy or doesn't want to contribute financially.
No one questioned Why until now

FittingFire
FittingFire

If you open your eyes and bother to read the reply the first line itself in my comment was "I would ask why"

FittingFire
FittingFire

My question would be why ? Just wanting to be lazy and wasting away your education is not a valid excuse.

Woman
Woman

That's pretty nice assumption you have there. I pray for your partner πŸ™

FittingFire
FittingFire

There is no reason to attack me.

CharmingCalmMan
CharmingCalmMan

Oh yaaaa. Finally a worthy question.

Firstly yr, I would hug you to bed ❀️ Gonna comfort you, make you forget it for a while. After cooking the best pasta/pizza/maggi for you. I will bring it with the best dressing and serve you. (and I am assuming you started this conversation late night because you no longer can keep it inside) Then while we are eating from the single plate, I tell you "you deserve everything you want.😊". Now tell me what do you really want. Now fully comforted you start pouring out your feelings and I am collecting all of them 🀍 After understanding you, I guide you and then we build a action plan together. Then you hug me backkkk for a long time and love me and start thinking how you became so lucky

CharmingCalmMan
CharmingCalmMan

And after this, as always I would end every topic with humour - asking you to refer me at Microsoft before you leave πŸ˜‚

Woman
Woman

Leave? Where would your wife leave? Also, who is leaving such a caring husband πŸ˜‚

P.S. I'm not in Microsoft, but an third vendor to them

ddlj
ddlj

If we are in a good financial situation or you need to take care of toddlers(prioritizing family) at home then I wont mind but if not and have loans going on then I would like u to conribute whatever little u can

Woman
Woman

If it is transactional for you, maybe you should reconsider marriage

FittingFire
FittingFire

@Jblio this feminazi post creator is asking you to reconsider marriage based on couple of lines in a comment. Then goes on to preach others to not assume anything. What an idiot @cuterusername is

ArthurFleck
ArthurFleck

I'll say,'Yes I also don't want to work, let's go to the mountains and settle there'

Woman
Woman

Here's the ring πŸ’
I say yes

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ This was really good

ArthurFleck
ArthurFleck

She said yes, people 🍾 πŸ˜‚

Are you from bangalore?

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