Problem solving vs Relationships ( Not just love )

I was learning to code when i was in my second year of BTech. I understood coding is not for all. It is a way of thinking. Some people naturally can code and some people work hard to get that way of thinking. Ultimately coding is about problem solving. Now one thing i understood is, my thinking and way of talking everything has got changed because of learning to code. Im making real life relations so complex. I have seen people who never think about how they think, who never go deep into why and what in day to day life, who just live their life without any stress but still earn good. What i am trying to ask is, is this normal for everyone. The more work you do, the more problems you solve, the more complex thinking your mind will start doing and this will affect your day to day life to think too much about ifs and elses in relationships.