I met her via a matrimonial site, we spoke like crazy for the first 3-4 days, it was non stop, i honestly thought that's it this is the girl I wanted to be with, she was fun, extrovert, pretty, had a very close knit of 3 friends (all girls), was focused on her career, was smart, didn't have any crazy past, etc
I happened to f***k up, i unnecessarily put the conversation in the wrong direction, taunted people with privileged upbringing and what not, but that was all bs, I tried to be someone else in front of her. And she got a bit nervous about it.
And eventually she ended up saying no, cause we have a different upbringing, and different mindset and it could be a problem in the future. And all this rejection happens right after I meet her.
I was appalled, not able to accept what just happened that too, this quickly, i still think she decided too early. We could've given this more time. She ended up texting that we can still be friends. Even today I feel like i should say this up right and see what happens, i don't know when was the last time I met someone like her, she was special for sure.
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Should I still ask her out?
Go about it. I have a totally different upbringing from my life. We are solid and we have openly talked about it, which has helped. She does not envy my privileged upbringing.
Privileged upbringing is not a choice, its not her fault that she was born in a wealthy household.
Talk to her openly about it, after apologising to her. Talk it out buoy! All the best!
life->Wife 😅👍
Regret is not an option dude!
Give it a try. The worst case is she will say no. But the best case is a whole life ahead. Atleast you won't be regretting it a year down the line.
Ask her out dude. Tell her that you were high or you just put your opinion but didn't have any envy towards them. It's the only life you got. If she still rejects, consider she has no interest.
Oh sounds great 😺look ahead with it🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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