PerkyJellybean
PerkyJellybean

The hands that hold through time!

I captured this moment on a street in Bangalore—a moment that felt like it belonged to another time. An elderly couple, standing together with their luggage, hands intertwined, as if they had traveled not just through cities, but through decades together. In that instant, I couldn’t help but reflect on how rare these kinds of connections are becoming in today’s world. We live in an era where dating apps and social media have turned relationships into transactions—quick, disposable, and often superficial. Casual flings, 'situationships,' and physical connections have become the norm. But where is all this taking us?

Are we chasing instant gratification at the cost of something deeper and more lasting?

We’ve all heard stories—people getting bored in relationships, not putting in the effort, or cheating when things get tough. There’s a growing culture of short-lived satisfaction, and it’s easy to fall into the trap of seeking the next thrill. But what happens when all the thrills are gone? When, one day, you’re surrounded by people, but none of them truly know you or love you for who you are?

This couple —what do you think they’ve been through? Their love wasn’t built overnight. It’s weathered storms, celebrated joys, and shared countless moments, both big and small. That kind of love doesn’t just happen; it’s nurtured over time with effort, patience, and mutual understanding.

Maybe it's time we look back at how our parents and grandparents approached love. They didn’t swipe right and move on when things got hard. They built lives together, navigated challenges, and held on when the road got rough. They weren’t looking for something fleeting—they were looking for something lasting. Because in the end, when the rush of youth fades, and life slows down, wouldn’t you want someone who’s still there? Someone who will hold your hand, just like this couple —a love that has stood the test of time, effort, and life itself.

True love isn’t instant. It’s built over time. It’s a journey worth taking.

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WigglyBanana
WigglyBanana

Very well written Felt great to read this early in to the week :)

All the best with your pursuit!

PerkyJellybean
PerkyJellybean

Thanks Alpha!

DerpyQuokka
DerpyQuokka

This is real love ❤️
So awesome Post 👏🏻 thankyou so much for making me read this.

PerkyJellybean
PerkyJellybean

Glad you liked it 😌♥️

SwirlyPickle
SwirlyPickle

Ayoo I saw the same post on reddit, I think. Damnit, time to touch some grass fr

PerkyJellybean
PerkyJellybean

Hahah, that’s me.

GigglyBurrito
GigglyBurrito

There is no true love in today’s time. My mom says love is all about making adjustments here and there. There is always a sheds of grey in love and life. But today people think in binary either good or bad and that too with instant gratification. True love is dead now.

PerkyJellybean
PerkyJellybean

Agreed 💯

GroovyBagel
GroovyBagel
SAP3mo

This kind of relationship is needed where you grow old together. 💝

PerkyJellybean
PerkyJellybean

True 💯

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