What's the most toxic incident you've come across at your workplace?
It can be either a strange workplace policy, an altercation with a manager or absolutely anything else.
Not sure how many anime fans are here, but I was recently watching this new anime called “Zom 100: Bucket List of the Dead”, which basically shows how a corporate employee is so fed up with his messed up job, that the first thought he has, when zombie apocalypse hits is, “I don’t have to go to work anymore!”, and he’s out to do things that he always wanted to.
Anyways, in the new episode, its shown how a toxic leader/boss/senior behaves. And man, was that so accurate!!
It shows how these leaders make you work like hell, belittle you, and misbehave with you. Even if you think of leaving the job, they make you believe how hard it is to survive without your current job, and how the work you’re doing is nothing, and that you can be easily replaced.
And in the end, after fucking up your mental peace, they will come and show a little bit of sympathy, telling they how they just push you for your own sake. Acting like some wise old “mentor you never had”.
And you know, what the worst part is, since all your colleagues are living in the same environment, since everyday you go through the same toxicity over n over, it becomes normal for u. Your brain adjusts, and it seems to think that this is how the world is.
Moreover, if you are a fresher, and you don’t have any prior experience of work culture, you seem to believe thats how work life is, and will always be.
I’m ranting this out, since i wasted around 1-1.5 years of my life in such startup, and it wasn’t just the time that was wasted, it also took my passion, my energy, my motivation and my goal with it.
To all the folks who might be in a similar situation, I just want to say, I know it’s hard and I know you probably can’t leave due to some financial situations or other issues. But BELIEVE ME when i say that nothing in this entire world comes above your mental health. Save that first folks. Be selfish, saving others can wait!
U just summoned one- zom 100 anime/manga fan.
Initially people with young mind go to fast pace startup/firm, bear toxicity and bad wlb. It does affect mentally. But as the people grow up experience wise and have major burnout they look for good wlb or slow pace companies so as to give time to side gig or rest and vest. If not will continue grind and might later on do it.
Here is a 🫂 🤗 for u. Everything will be fine. Like how the same guy (tendou) find his purpose (if u have seen the last episode) I am sure u will find too.
Thanks for the kind words! Hoping to find my purpose soon!
As people grow experience wise, they don’t look for rest and west or side gigs they become so mature. So I guess you are either immature for this take or you never really understood seniority in software engineering.
You can start identifying these places right at the interview level itself.
Screw the toxic employers! We need to start naming and shaming them to bring accountability into the system.
Add mine to the list. They are proud that they are "fast paced industry changers". At what cost? Everyone's mental health hanging by a single thread
When you see “yes_men” in the senior leadership and there is a sycophancy for the founder or CEO, start looking for a job if you have self respect. Companies without culture and running till such time the LALA had money from the investors. Most of these founders are great story tellers but little do they know about dealing with real people. High level of attrition are not due to work pressure, the reality is that u will just say no to mental molestation and rape of your self respect.
Yep, you summarised it pretty well. In our case, all the seniors were close friends / relatives of the CEO, and they didn’t dare speak against him, nor did he scold them, even when they were clearly in the wrong.
And yea, the founder did attract the investors with words like “first Indian metaverse”, or “Revamping Education”, though he can’t seem to be able to raise any more funding rounds now!
And lastly, most of my colleagues left because of the misbehaviour, everyday taunts, belittling our work and so on.
Work was never an issue, during the first few months, all employees used to voluntarily work 6 days a week, 12 hours a day.
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