there are two ways to go about it:
- Resent and fight for it, because YOLO
- No point in resenting and fighting, because YOLO
it's about which fight is worth fighting, it's important to choose your battles.
just ensure you are not doing it without a cause.
Also, not all battles are fought for victory, sometimes it's about telling the world someone was there on the battlefield.
Now moving from that philosophical gyaan:
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Know the difference between a friend and a colleague.
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Talk to your friends before making any big corporate decisions.
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Never hesitate to resign if you are not enjoying your job, be prepared to leave though.
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Never stay back for a salary hike, growth only comes with change.
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Don't hesitate in saying "F*ck You" if required, your self-respect is most important.
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Network with seniors, but avoid ass licking, it will be useful during appraisal.
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Chill and enjoy your work, if you aren't, leave the job.
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In a bigger scheme of things, a few months of employment doesn't harm, but a stagnant growth would hurt a lot.
this is how I work, choose whatever works for you.